Hey all.

I have been dealing with this sticking point for almost a year now. This will probably seem ridiculous to some but I am confident, good looking, jacked, personal trainer, a musician, and I am working on PhD. I have zero problems attracting girls, but I can't close. At least not as well as a lot of guys who are not as good looking, etc. Before I got into fitness and started paying attention to my appearance, attraction was harder but closing was WAY easier.

Now, I can get numbers, dates, etc really easily. But I get girls assuming that I sleep with hundreds of women. A bunch have told me that they don't want to be 'another notch'. They either take forever to give it up, start flaking, or even cut contact.

I assume this is a comfort thing. I've tried compliments, rapport building, etc. That helps a bit, but this is still a major struggle.

Wondering if anyone can identify with this and hopefully help me out.

Thx.

You are failing a very basic shit test. Remain cool and calm when women accuse you of being a player. Don't let it shake your frame. Ignore it and keep escalating. Women LOVE players. My guess is that you are actually coming off as in-congruent. You LOOK like a player, so you should probably ACT like a player. Kino more aggressively and push for the lay more quickly.

-Wolf

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wolfwood... period

wolf said some good stuff i do agree. Now with your girls are you at least kiss closing? and when you are is there a lot of passion or is it just a drunk make out? pm me sometime i use to have the same prob as you w F closing... But a quick note... frame yourself to be super sexual... and that "sex is not a big deal to you... its natural". also make sure u tell her you dont kiss and tell. girls hate that shit... also add in that you dont judge... i have a DHV routine for this. u do these things and frame her sexually... plus kino a lot and make out with her... all u have to do then is invite her back to your place and its on.

hope that helps if u have questions pm me.

Duke

If you embrace being a player/manwhore/ladies man then it makes things much easier. When a girl asks how many women you've been with, I agree with Hoopz, Say you don't kiss and tell. They love that. It makes them feel better not just being another story you're going to tell the guys later.

Don't deny it if that's what you're aiming for. Women are excited by the idea of playing with a player. When I tried to prove I wasn't a manwhore it just drug things out.

Act proud, don't be ashamed, if you act confident with this label, they will love you for it. Don't show ashame for the beautiful women you have slept with.
Women love players

Being a player means you are pre-selected by other women, but be sure to practice discretion. So it goes both ways but be sure to practice discretion so tell other women stuff like: a gentleman never tells when asked how many women you been with.