im an idot m ex gf had me come to a party at her house the other night but told me to bring girls (obv because it was a sausage fest, i get there shes completly ignoring me, i didnt let it bring me down i jumoped on the pong table and ran shit amog style. she had a freind there that was a legit nine. we said hi to each other but nether of us wanted to talk infront of my ex. we started talking on here which led to us texting which led to her asking me to pick her up from a party. i picked her up when i droped her off i walked her to the door and she was like if ur free tom lets chill. so the next day i went over there( due to the fact that i got thrown out of my house) schooled her in pool watched a movie kissed her. the next day we had plans to chill again (this girl was falling for me hard core and i actually liked her wasnt trying to jus hit it) the next day i pick her up we hang out all day kissing cuddling just being happy like actually happy. then we went to the movies and she laid across my lap holding my arm and running her nails across it. here where the i messed up i checked in on fb and tagged her to it. my ex saw it and flipped on her the next day. this girl hasnt responded to a text in 2 days now. i think my ex realllly fucked it up good but it sucks because i liked her like legit one-ids shit. any suggetions fellas and i already know how to lose one ids i just donet want to yet

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Listen man calm down, no need to get worked up! Remember you should just expect that this girl still wants to date you, what should you do? get a hold of this girl, meet with her face to face, and tell her these exact words:

"listen I like you a lot, we have a lot of fun together, and I could see this ending up being something special, It obvious that my ex is jealous and I'm sure she said some less then flattering words about me, but there is no denying the energy between you and I! If you want to let my ex get in your head and allow her to dictate your life then go ahead, she has no wright to tell you or I what to do, she had her chance and she clearly now regrets ending thing. That being said I am going to take you out again this week and we will start this over, when are you free?"

If she says no or "im not sure thats a good idea" say "Why not? did you not enjoy the time you spent with me? we clearly have a strong chemistry! so if my jealous ex is the only thing standing in the way then fuck it lets go out saturday, Il pick you up at 8"

If she still says no then say "alright that's to bad we could have had something really special" any way have a nice life!

Chances are your gf told a bunch of people that this new girl went out with you, made her look bad and feel horrible! you just have to reassure this new girl that she is doing the right thing and that your ex gf is jealous and selfish....no need to explain your self!

p.s don't worry about this girl just assume she will come around, don't push the issue to much! state your point, no need to text a million times! if she chooses to ignore you then ignore her and move on, chances are after not hearing from you for a couple weeks she will get in touch with you some how.

Don't cry about it just move on! it tough I know but there are other hb 9's out there!

I don't get what you mean by check in on facebook and tagged it

I guess you mean you tagged a picture of you and the girl.

Anyways you made a big mistake by messing with your ex girlfriends friend and not keeping it on the low at first. Of course your ex was going to flip out about it.

You gotta be smarter about things like this.

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I agree 100%! If you decide to date this girl I would have an mutual agreement that neither of you will talk about it around your ex or with people your ex knows...if things get more serious between you two then you can start telling people but until that time keep it on the DL! the new girl you are dating is probably afraid of loosing her friends and looking like a whore so it is your job to reassure her that she is making the right choice!

after a month or so if you are together and decide to be a couple then fuck it! post as many pics as you want lol by that time it won't matter!

She want answer me and i cant get her to meet me should i just go to her house and try to talk to her? I thought this would come across as creepy... let me know

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Yea thats creepy as fuck, text her or Facebook her on chat what above poster said. Chances are high she will respond.

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I didnt post a pic, she fell asleep when she was laying across me at the movies so i postes a status saying with sleeping beauty at the movies then tagged her in it

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But do u think shell really respond? I dont like giving the girl a chance to ignore me.

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text her, if she ignores you then move onto a differen't chick

By moving onto a differen't chick then the chances are then girl B will come round anyway

this sounds like everyone involved is under 19. Don't get emotionally involved or invested with any of these nutters. None of you should be in relationships at your emotional level

Just text her or msg her on facebook, if she doesn't respond then move on to a new girl.

I agree as well that if you are under 19 then don't take relationships to seriously! you are still a teen, go have fun, practice your game so that when your 25 you are the master of pick up! lol

Im 20 shes 19. I few of the guys from another site said to try pings, short cute funny texts that dont exspect responses. So i sent her
So im driving down the road talking to a guy i work with, windows down. A bird flys in thru is window and hits me in the shoulder. Picture this 2 guys jumping and yelling driving down the road while a bird flys around the cab of the truck. I wonder wat the on coming traffic was thinking! lol

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Don't over do it, I would simply send her what I told you, and move on if she ignores you. The more you text the more desperate you will look, and don't worry you will run into her at some point im sure, you will get another chance.

Sometime ignoring someone is the best thing to do...look at your self, she is ignoring you and its driving you crazy is it not? so think if you stop texting, stop calling, cut off all contact, and she see's some other girl post on your wall, what do you think that is going to do to your value in her eyes? its going to sky rocket!

if i already sent her a bing and she ignored it should i still send her wat u told me to send orginally, i relize i should have sent that first now.

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