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What up guys. So recently i ran into this blonde HB10 i met at the mall. I talked to her off and on for a while through text. I made a huge mistake with this girl…Because she was so hot, i over thought the amount of negging and teasing i should have done and probably came off as a jerk. I made a HUGE mistake and received a text “Nice meeting you. But you seem to be overly confident and a jerk. Please don’t message me again.” Yeah i definitely messed up. I actually laughed about it, no big deal, this is when the abundance mentality comes into play. If you make a mistake with one girl that ruins things, its OKAY. Its a learning process. You now know not to make this mistake anymore. This is actually the first time i have made this mistake of completely over negging and getting blown out. Its a simple mistake and can easily be avoided in the future.

See, even sluggler makes mistakes.

So guys when picking up 10′s and 9′s be careful not to OVER NEG. Negging should only be done in the initial approach to show you are not just after looks for like every other guy geeking over her looks. After the initial approach you should do more teasing than negging. Neg ONLY when necessary or to bring her down a notch. I thought this was a VERY important topic so for some of you guys who only meet 1 10 in your whole life, you wont screw it up to over negging or being overal confident and coming off as a jerk.

FELLAS dont make this mistake! If you have already learn from it as i have.

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