OH NO A WALL OF TEXT lol... Hi, I figured this is the closest thing to the text topic i want to talk about (and I use this on girls i met online) I've kinda stumbled across something in text that has made my day SOOOO much easier, to get to the point I may have found a way to get a girl to text you first everyday, and at the very least a good week. How does that sound? minimum 7 days of getting texted first? This is a layout and guideline kind of thing since I can't post the exact convo (My phone can store only so many messages and im a popular guy .

Obviously the backround is you need to have the girls number, you need to have some attraction built between you because if your still close to LJBF this wouln't work, you need to have the problem that she never (or only once in a blue moon) texts you first, and you need to have PATIENCE.
The basics is while your having a awesome convo its obviously going stale at somepoint, right before that happens or the second it starts too it's time to make her qualify herself. Start of with calling her out on the texting first, getting her a LITTLE defensive with this will actually help i think. Something like -

me:ya know you never seem to text me first
her: pssh I text you first all the time

Thats the actual reply I got the first time I was starting to stumble onto this, using my experience I decided to make her work for me because I WAS SICK OF CHASING HER BY TXTING FIRST - I'm sure you've felt this too, you know she should be chasing you, so why doesn't she text you first?

After I got this text back i decided to get a little ballsy, heres close to how the next part went.

me: I don't remember you ever texting me first actually
her: (shes still in defensive mode now) well I'm busy with work/whatever
me: lol prove it, I bet you couldn't last a week of texting me first
her: haha I could totally do that, to easy
now dont leave it here, its like asking a girl to go on a date never trust her first reply
me: fine but if you don't text me first this next week you have to admit your wrong (when has a woman done this? XD) but if you do i'll say im wrong.
her: your on

Thats as close to the convo as I can get, and I've had this girl text me first everyday for the last two weeks (I never admitted im wrong btw). The biggest thing you want to do is

1. Have a fun convo before you do this, pop this up out of the blue and it WILL fail
2. Get her a TAD defensive by calling her out on txting first
3. She'll make a excuse for why she can't text if you ask her again in a different way
4. Ask her to prove it, and bet her - This makes her qualify herself, and PLAY A GAME at the same time (women love games, and she'll qualify herself to play it)
5. She may respond with something more like "well idk" or "im pretty busy" but this is a guideline you still need to be able to deal with a few kinks, work on how you would answer those if you get txted that first.
6.seal the deal - if you just ask her once to show up at a party shes rarely going to do it, same with text, just simply making the rules that she'll admit shes wrong if she doesn't, this will will use HER EMOTIONS and she will get attached to winning this game.
7. Finally have the ALPHA quality of patience, I can't tell you how many times ive been texted at 9PM by a girl apologizing for not txting me first earlier, it WILL HAPPEN so DONT TEXT HER first through the week, give her a chance - if you text her first sometime in the week you will lose her chasing you, and you will be chasing her again.

Please share any successes, tips, or failures with me, I want to perfect this

This is all pretty solid text game advice I think I'll try this technique out next time I have a situation like that.

You should provide spaces, it's hard to read.

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Edited, Thanks tiger be sure to post how it goes!

any success with this?

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Love it. I'll be trying this out and letting you know the results

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I dont know man it seems a little needy and the girl would have to be really dumb not to know you are manipulating her.

Although I can kinda see this working, I think you have to be real careful about calling her out on not texting you first.. if you can get it into the convo and it sounding playful and fun then it could work. if it comes across as a serious call out then you might f it up and she will see right through this...

If it does work I think it's great because it will get her used to initiating contact first and even get her more comfortable with it. Therefore she would be more likely to do it in the future.

If it doesnt work and she sees right through you though it could put you many steps back and give her all the control. She will know that you are waiting for her to text you or wanting her to text you first and she will feel she has all the power...

Would like to hear if anyone has had success with this though. I think this could be tweak a bit to work better but havent had time to think more about this just yet ;P

I don't see the point of this. If you're doing everything right, her level of interest is at peak and she will always initiate. Doing it that way feels more rewarding for me. Calling her out on not texting you first is, in my opinion, rather desperate. It shows that you invest too much interest in her and care too much about what she does or thinks of you. Also making a bet like that to make her text you first is a bit forceful to me. Hell, she will text you so she won't lose, she might be a bit more invested in you but don't mistake it for attraction.

If I want a girl to always initiate, I use a much simpler trick. Game her right, spike her curiosity and leave her wanting more.

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