| Key points: After I got the LJBF speech and she asked how I was feeling, I said confused as to why I was getting the talk, and I didn't plan on anything happening between us because of her leaving soon, and said if we avoid the point of why we started talking, see ya. I think the flip-flop of my intentions sparked somewhat of an interest. Then ignored her for days on end, knowing that she'd realize after a week of talking to me non-stop that she would essentially miss me. When I did decide to talk to her again, I made it very brief, and provided a reason of why I couldn't talk which disqualified me as being a "nice guy" (I was overly nice to her the first two dates, and this showed that I'm not a perfect guy, I get in trouble too and have a 'badass side' -lol) I let her set up the next date, and said I didn't have too long, because I have other stuff going on that day (lie).
Saturday night: A random girl messaged me on facebook who i'd been friends with for a while but never talked to. We ended up talking for 4 hours that night and she gave me her number. We made plans to go to the beach on Monday.
Sunday afternoon: I got bored from studying, and asked if she wanted to do anything, she complied and we set up a meeting point halfway between our houses
Date 1: went to tgi fridays went back to my house, cuddled and listened to music for a couple hours, felt great to go on a date, it had been a while.
Date 2: riding my motorcycle to her house, I lost traction and crashed because of some gravel on the ground, so we got a ride from a couple of her friends. They started giving her alcohol, but shes only 18. Long story short, she got busted for public intoxication underage. She went to live with her dad for a week and I didn't get to see her. Shared a couple makeout sessions with her throughout the day
Now, when she started talking to me, I'd known fully well that she was going off to college which is 3+ hours away from me, but I figured we could have a little connection while she was relatively close. We'd talked on the phone every day for a week while she was gone, and she randomly stopped responding, and if she did text back or call it was usually half a day later. I said "fuck it, its probably done anyway." 2 days later, she texts me saying shes been doing a lot of thinking and she doesn't want me to start liking her before she goes away and gave me the LJBF speech. I'll be the first to admit I'm a nice guy AFC AA stricken guy, but I don't know, this just felt instinctive, I said "alright, well, if we're avoiding the point of why we started talking, then its probably best to just say this, 'see ya'." Turned my phone off immediately because I knew she was going to try to call me, turned it on an hour or so later to a text saying "really???" and a voicemail saying call me back. Proceeded to ignore her for a few more days, and she called me randomly when I was in the woods hiding from a run-in with a police officer, I explained everything to her on the phone, and honestly, it didn't matter if I was lying or not, this seemed to get her pretty well turned on, change in voice, more desire to want to talk to me on the spot, and proved that I wasn't a boring "nice guy," like she thought I was. I called her at 4 a.m. when the whole ordeal was over, and she asked if I wanted to go to her dads lakehouse for the day to go fishing.
Date 3: went fishing at her house, watched some family guy with her and her little brother, and no more than 10 seconds after he left to his friends house, it was on, and we ended up screwing 4 times in 6 hours before I said I had to leave for work.
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