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PostPosted: Thu Aug 09, 2012 8:51 am 
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So I'm in a very healthy relationship! This is in fact the happiest relationship I've been in EVER!

We'll refer to my girl as Miss-M and the guy as Mr-K...

Miss-M and Mr-K have been friends for 5 years now and I've known them for that same period.

Everything was cool with me and Mr-K before I started dating Miss-M. Infact, the three of us went on a roadtrip a few months ago without any problems. Mr-K and I aren't friends but we are cool with each other ("I'd invite him to my wedding but he'd get to sit in the backrow" kinda vibe).

The problem started when I dated Miss-M!

Dude started being a dick but very playfully which means screaming things like "hey, stop hugging my sister", "Me and Miss-M are family, you are just an outsider", "Oh my God, she is probably cheating on you", Oh my God, you are probably cheating on her" and other dumb-ass comments in front of Miss-M

I always hold my frame and smile and my girlfriend will respond with statements like "Argh, Clive is family too dickhead", "Clive wouldn't cheat on me", "lol, Clive isn't insecure, he won't be bothered by such shit"

Miss-M mentioned that Mr-K always has beef with any of her boyfriends so my vibe is that Mr-K has a crush of some sort and is uncomfortable being around any guy that is sleeping with Miss-M. He is of very low value and is at AFC level.

So how do I go about this matter?

I wanna tell him straight up infront of Miss-M that this behaviour is unacceptable but I have my doubts...

Any suggestions from the community?

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Amog him.


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Amog him.
:D :D :D :D :D Ahhhhhh! been a while since I went there... I like the suggestion!

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But then again I've never been a fan of amogging. It just has never been my style. My friends and used it once on some guy at a camp that was being an dickhead and it kinda got out of hand. He attempted to commit suicide and that really messed up the camp for all us... (We went a bit too far but he deserved it!)

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Don't let it bother you, it's his problem.

He just got friendzoned and is a bit frustrated on you.

Your girlfriend ignores it, super.

Keep your frame and laugh it away.

If you don't want to spend as lot time with him, just tell your girlfriend, "lately i'm not feeling him anymore" don't tell the reason, say that you don't know how it comes you feel this way.


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Stop hanging out with the dude, he is jealous and even though they know each other for 5 years it does not mean he can act like that towards you.

If your girl invites you to do something with the three of you just decline the offer and tell her you rather not chill with him, if she asks why just say what above poster said or tell her straight up he is being immature around us.

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if hes low value and AFC, whats the problem here?

his behaviour should be comic relief.

if its really ticking you off, either put him in his place or avoid him altogether.


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Don't let it bother you, it's his problem.

He just got friendzoned and is a bit frustrated on you.

Your girlfriend ignores it, super.

Keep your frame and laugh it away.

If you don't want to spend as lot time with him, just tell your girlfriend, "lately i'm not feeling him anymore" don't tell the reason, say that you don't know how it comes you feel this way.
I agree... keeping my frame is the most important thing I can do in this situation. I think Miss-M already knows that he is crushing on her or I'm atleast assuming she's smart enough to and she also sees it as a problem hence she mentioned it. With that being said, it will be mutually beneficial to let go of Mr-K,
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Stop hanging out with the dude, he is jealous and even though they know each other for 5 years it does not mean he can act like that towards you.

If your girl invites you to do something with the three of you just decline the offer and tell her you rather not chill with him, if she asks why just say what above poster said or tell her straight up he is being immature around us.
Yep, that's just what i had in mind... Will wait for the opportunity as Miss-M is already showing signs of irritation
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if hes low value and AFC, whats the problem here?

his behaviour should be comic relief.

if its really ticking you off, either put him in his place or avoid him altogether.
My main problem here is having my frame reassessed each and every time... Yes, I do hold it well with body language, laughing it off and genarally making Mr-K look like an idiot but I get irritated very easily and this might end up showing in the long run if this behaviour continues... At first I used to find it hilarious that this dude has known Miss-M for 5 years, has not made a move and now shows animosity towards every guy Miss-M is with to ease his heartache but it really does get irritating.

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the next time he comes out with some dickhead comment just look blank like you haven't heard, then after a few seconds look at him and say,

'what was that i stopped listening to you'

If you time it right its genius


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i would not be having fun time with her and her fuckhead friend.

the guy sounds like a total reject anyway.

it's not as thought you LIKE hanging out with him.

so don't.

no need to generate drama.

simply say "he is your friend, not mine, hang out with him if you want, but i'm going to the gym"

:D

don't do thing you don't LIKE just to please your girlfriend.

that is beta.

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the next time he comes out with some dickhead comment just look blank like you haven't heard, then after a few seconds look at him and say,

'what was that i stopped listening to you'

If you time it right its genius
:D :D With a bit of personalised modification I can actually see this working for me. lol. Thanx!
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i would not be having fun time with her and her fuckhead friend.

the guy sounds like a total reject anyway.

it's not as thought you LIKE hanging out with him.

so don't.

no need to generate drama.

simply say "he is your friend, not mine, hang out with him if you want, but i'm going to the gym"

:D

don't do thing you don't LIKE just to please your girlfriend.

that is beta.

:D Solid! I am under no obligation to be in this situation...

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You always try to be so funny, have you succeeded in the last weeks? :D
Start laughing really really hard - quit - now that was a good joke (sarcasm)
Give him a DVD of a decent comedian in front of your gf and tell him ;this guy might actually learn you something.

Alot of these reactions arn't you being BETA or being annoyed, they are just ending your problem.
Or just avoid the situation like Mack suggested or deal with it. If you keep getting annoyed non-acting is as beta as acting like a bitch.


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The only reason this guy is hanging around is because he wants to fuck your girl if you can't see that you're an idiot.

Come on who the hell goes on a road trip as a 3rd wheel?! His only reason was to try to cock block you.

Guys like him will stab you in the back first chance they get. You don't need to be nice handle that shit and get his ass out of the picture. Get Vocal on that guy make him believe you're crazy and let him know you don't like him and if he ever gets out of line you'll beat his ass.. it's that simple

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I don't see what the problem is here dude? stop hanging out with this guy? why are you going on road trips with your gf and another dude who wants to fuck her?

Next time he wants to hang out say no, tell your gf he's fucking annoying and he clearly has it out for you. If she doesn't agree, hangs out with the guy and gives you an ultimatum, then tell her its over.

When you are in a relationship you are her 1# priority, just like she is your 1#. Your not gaming this girl any more, your in a relationship, if you don't like hanging around this dude and he is clearly hitting on your gf then cut him out of the picture.

your the prize not this guy...if your gf has a high interested level she will follow your lead. Stop trying to please people and do what you want to do! or its going to back fire on you! this guy will throw you under the bus the first chance you get! and he will do everything in his power to bang your gf.


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Simple. Do nothing.

If your relationship is good, by trying to pull you apart he will push her away.

You don't have to do anything


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