Hey everybody,
I met this girl in a mental health center 3 month ago. It all worked out very well we had sex a couple of times and stayed in contact after the therapy, she was texting me all day long and we SPAM for hours each day, she called herself my girlfriend.

I visited her last weekend (150km ride) and at first it was really great, her family really seemed to like me. We had sex the whole night and in the morning.
the next day I met some of her friends, but she seemed rather uncomfortable with me being by her side which really made me feel bad.

Due to my condition all the introductions were very exhausting so I went back to the house to rest some time.

When she came back she was of the opinion that this whole thing between us wasn´t such a good idea after all. She doesn´t like any sorts of obligations and just wanted to be with her friends. We had to concentrate on ourselves in order to recover.

I just started to cry, said that I was terribly in love with her and can´t loose her.

She said she still had feelings but were afraid to let me in any further. In the end I said she might need a few days to figure out what she really wants and left.

Of course I texted her the next day and we had a phone conversation in which I stated that I really want to give it another shot and that in fact nothing bad happened, it was all just too little conversation.
She said she couldn´t promise anything, that she does´t wanna hurt me again and that I´m such a wonderful guy every girl could dream of and there was nothing she´d rather do than to be with me, but she isn´t ready for a real commitment, but we could stay in contact and phone once in a week or so.

I have absolutely no idea what so ever what to do.
I hope you guys can give me some advice,
any thoughts and comments are appreciated,

thanks very much in advance

keef

It is over man you cried in front of her.
Move on. she has.

hope this helps
Air

_________________
You are too needy with women