I have been on my journey of improving my conversation with strangers and girls and improving general social skills, but I don't plan on [if I were to get out and plan on talking to new people] picking up chicks for moral reasons, I mean I would try and get to know them but not get them into bed. I am more interested in trying to befriend people and reduce approach anxiety to improve my social life and social skills.

When I've been out shopping at the mall by myself, I have done approaches and made conversation with a few strangers, but I have had no "true" success, no numbers or anything. By my own admission, planning to converse with strangers is quite daunting especially for the first few times. I live with my parents, 30mins from the nearest mall, so naturally I haven't planned on going out and doing this stuff, except when shopping/being in town for whatever reason.

I would like to know whether your [the reader] daygame or cold approaching has improved other aspects of social life and confidence in other areas of life?

If so, should I try and plan to get out more and start trying to start a connection with someone, regardless of the outcome, and perhaps with a friend, or should I concentrate on gaming the girls that I've already met, and would pursue a relationship with?

If you have been, thanks for reading, looking forward to responses!

You should get out their and improve. Gaming the girls you already have will only help for the moment. What happens when they are gone and you are stuck still extremely struggling with AA?

Get out there and start opening and approaching women. Try and go for number closes sometimes. Even if you don't think she is attracted to you, go for it, just to get use to asking for the number. Some girls will think you are a interesting person and give it to you.

When i was in the baby stages of my transformation i found it most helpful to go out ALONE. if you go out with friends they may give you that push that you usually wont have when you are alone. The better you get at approaching alone, then grab a wing and hit the field.

Day gaming has improved my social life in every way. From work, school and friends. It also helped my over all confidence and made me realize approaching a beautiful women you see on the street isnt as frightening as it appears. I actually enjoy doing it now, and have started teaching other guys in my area how to.


You should definitely check out my blog and journal. This will definitely help you out alot.

http://theattractiveu.com

Sluggler

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The guy above is hitting all the right points, completely agree.
i would add that once you get home from your approaches its worth running them all through in your head and writing down what goes right and what goes wrong and try correct it.
getting experience on the field will help improve confidence but my own real improvements come from my self evaluation.

Sluggler really nice blog you got there mate going to study this and hopefully pick up on some of the pointers seems like some very good stuff with a quick skim read of it.

Cheers, Fred