I am going to share a short field report but I would also like to ask a question about continuing this encounter. If there is a better place to ask this please let me know.

FR:

So it was my last night in Vegas. Had bottle service at one of the popular clubs in Vegas. After a few disappointments from girls (some only told me they had a boyfriend much later on, some found out I was much younger than them -- a 27 year old... right as we were about to share a taxi!).

I call it a night and start making the long, drunken walk back to the hotel.

I decide to call up one of the girls who I only had a shorter encounter with (one that I don't really remember). I managed to get her number/text her before leaving that night.

So I call her and we talk about what each other are doing, etc.. But then she hangs up, at this point I'm at my hotel. And I start to call it a night after texting her "did you hang up, or was it me?"

She tells me that her phone ran out of batteries and that she was charging it. She then tells me that she's married. I'm shocked, I ask her why she's calling me then (it was ~5:30am at the time). She says she's in an open relationship with her husband and that it's cool. After joking around with her over the phone, we make plans to meet in the middle between our two hotels.

Once we meet up, she asks if I want to go to her hotel. We do. She was amazing.

I got up, said, "I guess you'll never see me again."

On the ride back home from Vegas, I texted her asking her her age. "Early 30s".

I was shocked again. She even wore her wedding ring while we were together.

My question: The last thing she texted me that she had a lot of fun. I know she's married. I know she's a lot older than I am. But does that have to be the absolute last time we ever see each other?

If the consensus is that I should try to initiate something with her again, then what would be the best way to try to find out if it's possible?

Some of my thoughts:
Text her: "It was great meeting you." ... "Will I ever see you again?"

-or-

"Do you go to Vegas often?"

Thanks guys!

I think you should just let it be a good story. U know the saying so i wont even type it.

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She told you it was an open relationship so of course you can see her again but make the option open to her. Tell her that if she ever decides to come to your city we can have more fun than last time . Or if your going where she is again keep in contact and sort out the logistics yourself. In the meantime life goes on so keep having fun. =D

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Ok well I was hoping for some ppossible suggestions.

Maybe I should say, "I know we're probably never going to see each other again, but if you're ever near the bay area, don't be a stranger."

Newbie advice but i'd send that, worst case scenario you won't see her again, but if you don't do anything then you definitely won't!