Good afternoon people.

The jist of this is:

- I've been with my gal about 9 months now. I would say we're approaching the 'comfortable' stage. We see each other 3 or 4 times a week and because its summer vacation I am living back at my folks place.

-She also lives with her folks full time. I would guess we have some form of sexual contact 65% of the time we're at each others house.

-I am sort of used to more! My last GF was not as good in bed and cheated on me, but we would probably be screwing more like 95% of the time together at each others places. She also had a much lower self esteem (I really do think self esteem and sex drive can correlate but thats another thread?)

-My gf now is probably the first GF I have properly attended to. In the past I have been pretty selfish but I make sure I am on top orally now.

-So basically:



What can I do to get her arousal levels to at least stay as they are, if not rise? If they were to drop as we enter long term status I would not be happy at all!

Thanks!

Arouse her mentally with your personality and amazing sex.

Easy to tell, not so hard to do. Once you keep great sex, she will want more. I mean great, mindfuckingblowing sex.

The other thing - women feel attraction towards sex because of your personality so be sure you're on your edge and living like you want.

Just for example: you don't have money and make a problem of it - bad. You meet her and tell her you watched TV all day - bad. Be your best self and give her amazing sex. Then she will be wet everytime you will meet her.

Other ideas: she may just have low sex drive, however I do not believe in that. All the girls I have had, had great sex drives and were quite different in personalities.