So I met a cute girl while volunteering for a latin festival. I talked to her for a bit, kino'd some and showed her a pic of our fridge. (We had a lot of alcohol for that weekend) She said "aw man we should go to your room for some alcohol". That was my main excuse for bringing the alcohol actually, to get HB's to my room. haha.
Anywho, I ended up going to a pool party at that same event and she invited us (my buddy & i) to her place for some alcohol. I met her friends and we all had a great time. I won her friends over and they loved me. haha. Later that night we went dancing. I told her alcohol improved my dancing (totally doesn't) and so she said lets go get some! We came up to my room. I was being the alpha male the whole time, I grabbed her by her waist and put her arm around me as I walked her from one dance floor to the other, and also to my room. Continued to kino since i've read that kino is super important. By this point I had already kino'd a fuck ton because of dancing also, so there was a lot of sexual tension built up. We started drinking and I made out with her. The instant I kissed her she went wild on me. More wild than I had anticipated. haha
To my surprise though, she had a lot of LMR!
I was about to ask her to take off her shirt but I read somewhere that women feel like sluts when you ask them to do that so I took it off for her instead. (not sure if this is useful or not but hey it might help someone out there) So I took off her shirt & bra and we kept making out. She said "I don't want to have sex." I said, ok that's fine as I continued making out. In my mind though, I was like $*#%@!!!!!!!!!!!
As I continued making out with her all that was going through my head was; how the fuck am I going to pull this off? I had previously been able to k-close another chick but I had LMR too & i wasn't able to handle it then so I wasn't sure if I would be able to full close. Then it suddenly hit me. I'm the fucking prize here, not her.
So I started taking off her panties and she told me the same thing. "I don't want to have sex." This time I was prepared. I looked in her eyes and told her with a smile on my face, slight humor, exageration, & confidence:
"Whoa slow down, who said we're going to fuck? I'm not that easy!" I realize that this is fucking retarded to say at this point considering that I am taking off her panties, I mean what else are we going to do right? Anywho, these are the words I read somewhere that someone who prizes himself would use.
I looked at her and she just smiled and laughed.
Somehow, these magical words completely eliminated the LMR. I remember right after saying that I gave her a kiss and took off her panties with no fucking resistance. None. Just 10 seconds ago she didn't let me do that. I was completely freaked out that it actually worked. But I was also laughing and smiling because it fucking worked!!!! ahahahahaha
The rest is history. So I guess I know how to kind of handle LMR. 1st Lay in a year. Feels good. haha
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