So today I saw a message to my girlfriend from her ex and I read their conversation because it seemed suspicious. I then found out they texted everyday in flirtatious ways she calls him baby and says I love you to him l. So I told her and broke up with her.

But she keeps on insisting she has no feelings for him and are friends and cried so hard as I left. But I kept my cool told her how much I loved her but left.

She wants to talk and calls and so far I have responded but making it clear. So should I completely get rid of her or just be normal but not together?

I know I want to talk to her too. She is texting me right now saying how she misses me. Should I just have a talk with her

I would make a great fire of the bridge, sincerely..
We are not talking about a girl who exchanged a few texts with an ex.. this girl was having daily interactions with the dude. and probably being more lovey-dovey with the ex than with the OP. are there any guarantees they were not sleeping together at this point? not really..
the girl is now crying and making attempts at winning OP back because if she is forgiven, it will soothe her "God I am a slut" feeling!

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I know for sure she is not but yeah I guess ya' ll right. I really loved her sucks it has to end this way.

+1 for ending it. You don't have to burn any bridges - I know it seems like it would make you feel better right now, but you'll be way more proud a few months from now if you take the high road. I promise.

So just answer her calls and everything but leave what I ended the way it is?

I agree 100%

I bet if the op said to her..."ok let's have a break for a month and have no contact. If you truly love me then try and contact me after a month! It's the only way I'll believe you"

I'd guarantee she would be exclusive with her ex within 2 weeks!

She's crying because she knows she hurt you and she feels bad about it! She wants to make herself feel better

Cut her off the list. Don't believe what your mind is telling you about her being truthful. No rules, no procedures. Just.. nike.

Just go no contact and act like she is dead to you. When you read that shit you were hurt to, she does not deserve your time nor breath.

She will throw some tests to you but stay strong! Tests could be telling friends you just don't contact her anymore without giving the real reason or getting mad at you for different shit such as: "Remember that time at the bar where you were hitting on that girl and i forgave you'. She will go through some phases but just don't take the bait.

Good luck with this, you did the right thing!

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Man, you're a PA, an Alpha man, how could you accept the fact she is flirting wth smby else?

I know it hurts, you probably have feeling for her, but come on, we are talking about your pride. The fact she's talking with her ex is the proof she aint afaid of loosing you.

"You just kinda wasted my precious time, don't think twice, it's alright"

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