I met this HB9 at a mutual friend's bday almost 1 month ago. We hit it off right away, I went back to her place after the club and tried to F close but wasn't successful because she said she had a bf.

After that night I started texting I set up a day 2 which went well. Eventually this turned in to a day 3 and day 4 which is when I f-closed her. I found out from some people that she broke up with her bf and she also eventually told me this on her own as well.

We started hanging out and spending quite a bit of time together after I f-closed her because she was leaving in a week to go travel Europe for 1 month with 3 friends and her sister. Leading up to her departure, she kept trying to convince me to come meet up with them on the trip at some point to party. Furthermore, the night before she left she asked me if i could try to not sleep with any other girls while she's away.

The part of the trip I was thinking about joining them on was Bacelona and Ibiza, as I have never been there and would love to check it out and party.

Now the question I have is it the wrong move for me to go and join them for a few days? I am based in North America. I have tried to recruit a few of my friends, but none of them can get the time off work. I mentioned that to the HB9, but she keeps insisting that I come alone. It is very tempting as I do need a vacation and have not been anywhere yet this summer.

So to all you PUA's out there, what is the right move? Is there anything wrong in going alone to meet them in Spain for a few days, or should I not go at all?

Thanks in advance!

you should definitely go man ... that's a once in a lifetime experience ... go party it up!

Do you think that it would DLV because she would feel that I'm going all the way to europe for a few days to see her?

No i think it would communicate interest ... Your probably viewing that a thr DLV ... But its not ... Since she communicated interest by inviting you ... So u actually want to reward her IOI with an IOI by going ... And even if it did DLV you ... It would communicate so much DHV that it would overide any potential chance of communicating to much interest ... I mean you would convey financial success, risk taker, traveler, sponteanity, and fun ... So no worries ...

But just in case ... Dont forget the willingness to walk away ... If things do go sour with that one girl ... Its not like your there because of her funds ... If things went sour ... U can still turn it around and pick up other girls ... Party it up ... And enjoy your vacation

Dont look at it as if your going just because of her ... Yea she plays a small part ... But your also there to party, experience something new, and enjoy your vacation ... There are plenty of reasons to go beside her