Okay guys so here is a nice diagram i found on approaching a women during day game who is walking past you.

1.Let her walk past.

2. Swing around

3. Come in from behind to the side a little and tap her on the arm GENTLY. DON'T grab her.

4. Now OPEN HER!

To get a visual picture of how this is done, check out the image on my blog.

SOURCE: http://theattractiveu.com/approaching-a ... s-walking/

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this looks col, but how do you manage to tap her if you let too much space between both of you when she passes (i see on the second picture in your blog its looks like she is several feet away after she passed.

You probably don't want to go after her and tap her, since it might indicate chasing her and chasing communicates neediness.

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Well in day game it is a little different. Speeding up to catch up with a beautiful women you want to talk to isn't "Chasing" its called wanting to talk to a women you find attractive. I do this all the time and i know it works. Try it out yourself.

Ive jogged to catch up with women before. Trust me, she wont judge you as "needy" by trying to catch up with her to speak. Her judging you as needy will depend on you portraying that during the interaction alone. I think you are over analyzing it to much bro. In day game its quick reaction, its not like a at the bar. In day game you see a girl and you have to go after her or let her walk out of your life forever. Its your choice.

In the picture it seems a little far, but its really only maybe 5 feet or so away. You dont want to walk directly into her walking path because she may think you are trying to sell something to her or you may just pop up and it will be abrupt and seem rude especially in public.

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you have a point. I agree. Maybe just walk tap her and say in a simple manner: "hey i wanted to talk to you..." and from then on what ever comes to mind.

did you had some successful number close that way ?

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Yes, i do all the time. Here is a more recent one that i blogged about. http://theattractiveu.com/day-game-clos ... starbucks/
Check it out. This same chick i have a date set up with her one day this week. She has been texting me ever since.

Yes just walk up...

"Excuse me..{Pause}...I was just on my way(where ever you are going) and i noticed you walking past, and wanted to tell you i think your attractive/beautiful/lovely/elegant/."

Then continue with introducing yourself.

During day game its best to go DIRECT. I ALWAYS go direct, it is my preference. Instead of masking my intentions with indirect.

Then just introduce yourself. I will have a article posted soon on how to make a direct approach work during day game later on tonight.

For now check this out.
http://theattractiveu.com/day-game-appr ... ion-close/

Sluggler

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Thanks for sharing

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please accept this with understanding

Is it 'right' to excuse yourself. Doesn't it lowers your value and ... again makes you in her eyes like you need something from her.
I've heard Mystery says not to excuse ourselves when we approach, although ethics requires it. I try not to excuse or apologize (at the begging - approach/comfort phases). Not that i'm some rude jerk, but I just don't want women to perceive me as lower value then them.

What is your point on that ?


Btw i've read your blog post with the example with the pass by approach. It was nice. I liked the part where you didn't stepped back when she said she is dating someone.

btw i also don't want to mess with ppls relationships but if they are just dating they r not yet in relationship so its OK.

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Yeah good point. If someone is in a relationship i usually back off. Some guys aren't like this though.


During day game it is an exception. Mystery wasn't a day game style guy, most his pick ups where at night time. In bars/clubs etc, you don't have to say "Excuse me.." or something like this because the environment is set up for women to be approached by guys.

During day game while someone is walking it is perfectly fine to say excuse me to get her attention. You don't have to say excuse me. it is just my preference and works unless the women doesn't have time to stop and talk.

Whatever floats your boat. I am out there in day game a lot and that is what i find works best. Trust me, by saying excuse me, you wont come off as needy during day game, this is the polite way to get someones attention during the day. Like i said, you will come off needy if you have week body language, not making eye contact, and showing ALOT of signs of nervousness.

Yeah and the funny thing is about that girl is she has been blowing my phone up. She began to flirt with me yesterday so i quickly told her..."NO FLIRTING" haha.


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Also check out my new post, this will definitely help give a more deeper in site in approaching women directly during the day.

http://theattractiveu.com/how-to-make-a ... oach-work/

Sluggler

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