Not really depressed about it, just stumped. I had started dating a girl for a bit, HB7. Things were going well, then all of the sudden she tells me she's still whipped on her ex.

Im just trying to put my finger on this one. I am a confident guy, and Im in pretty good shape. Im on the verge of a new job as a Financial Advisor and I believe, I will be quite succesful at it. I feel that I offer high value, yet the results are not coming in with women. I went out with my buddy and a few girls last night, but spoke more with him and his friend than the girls. Im missing something, what do you guys think the solution is?

Id like to get out more, but I don't want to drink very often. My idea there is to go out and drink once a month and have 5 beers, as I don't want to lose gym results because of alcohol.

You are wrong if you think alcohol is the answer.
What you seem to be missing here is the point that in order to get women you have to talk to them first.

You shouldn`t assume that since you`ve had a flake from one girl you can make a rule out of it.
You say you are throwing value around you, thats great.
I think you need to invest some time in actually talking to girls. For this you dont need buzz, don`t need money, nor looks.
You need TIME. That`s all, same as gym; in order to see results you have to spend time on it.

Well, do it so with ladys.

Nothing revolves around one girl she may just be an anomelie
as long as you do everything you can to the best of your ability
you should be happy and in time everything should be good.