Guys,

A girl & I were messaging back and forth for quite a long time, but then she seemed to lose interest as I paid her too much attention. I think I lowered my value...

Anyway, after several weeks of her not messaging anymore, she sent me a random Facebook poke yesterday! Haha! Not to overthink this, but I just want some advice on when and HOW to respond? Maybe a witty reply? Use the 'poke' thing to use some sexual banter/innuendo perhaps?

Any advice welcome.

Thanks fellas!

Look up the Facebook poke routine read and change up to fit your frame but before you do read this:

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

You write that you messaged her for quite a long time. How did these messages go with her? Why didn't the two of you get together?

Definitely should strike while the iron is hot. If you were messaging a lot then during this time you should have 1) build raport with her, disarm her make her feel comfortable. tell her that you like something in her profile BESIDES what she looks like in her pictures. 2) escalate the conversation gradually until you find where her boundaries are. You want to see how bad you can get her to be. she will love this about you. Very simple example: You: How are you Her: Good You: So you're GOOD huh? I bet you I can make you SO bad...

Be this way with her and she will be eating out of your hand. Then it is up to YOU to decide if she is the type of girl you want to date. She will be there for the taking. Cheers.

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Sean Dunn

Cheers for your replies guys!

It's not a big deal, as I hardly know this girl! I sat next to her on a flight from Manchester to Amsterdam just over a year ago. She was (reasonably) hot, so I FB and then number closed her (while she was sitting with a male friend who wasn't her boyfriend!) We're of different nationalities, live in different countries and speak different languages (although I speak her language reasonably well, and her mine!)

We've texted a bit over the last 18 months or so, but I'll probably never see her again. I would like her to agree to come and visit me, but I doubt it'll actually happen! Haha! Just kept her on the back burner in case anything ever changes, but I'll probably never see her again! I'm not that bothered to be honest.

What do you guys think?

It is easier to start fresh with a new girl than try to fix a past one. It's worth giving it a shot though. Try to change your image with her and try to excite her. If you press her buttons the right way she will visit you. Write this to her out of the blue, "Hey do you like secrets?" She will prob reply with, "maybe". Then you say, "I do too. Would you like to tell me some of yours ? You will surprise and excite her. This is your mission. Cheers!

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Sean Dunn

Cheers man!

I just texted her the secrets thing about 3 hours ago. No response yet...

Think it's dead in the water! Haha!

That's why there's millions of other girls out there. Pick your next target and proceed.

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Sean Dunn