I recently got out of the friendzone and we've been "dating" for a week now. Since this is (sadly) my first girlfriend ever I have no idea what I'm doing.

2nd day of our relationship she already says "I love you." I didn't know how to react so I just said "I know." Every phone call she makes kiss noises and tells me how she really wants to kiss me. (Sadly, I've also never had my first kiss. I almost k-closed a girl but there was a LMR). The 3 years I knew her, she's had 8 boyfriends who she broke up with because her feelings just suddenly disappeared. Putting two and two together I figured it's because she goes too fast and just forgets the emotional side of relationships and focuses on the physical side. (Is that to be expected from high schoolers?)

Would it be a little too afc if I feel like I need to date her so she can figure out this whole emotional aspect of the relationship? It seems like a weird realization that even though we've been friends for 3 years I really know nothing about her and she knows nothing about me... Would establishing the emotional connection lead to something deeper than the physical stuff and possibly make the relationship last longer? Or should I just not worry about this at all?

She knows that I learned pick up artistry and she knows that I have a couple women texting me asking when we're going out. Even on the day I asked her to be my girlfriend a girl texted me saying how much she loved me (I didn't even ask that other girl out... ever.)

She had 8 boyfriend and lost feelings quickly. She sounds insecure and complex. I wouldn't bother.

Showing so much not needed attention immediately is way too much.

On the other side you know her for SOOOO LONG, do you even feel some kind of attraction except a physical one? I somehow lose interest quickly

Both of you seem immature to me. Especially her... Saying "I love you" on the second day is just redundant. It just means that she has no idea about love. And that she's in love with the concept of love, not with you. And that's why her feelings always disappear.

Now for the kissing thing I don't know what's the big deal about it. Come on! How old are you that you're making a kiss with YOUR GIRLFRIEND a big deal? I mean... usually I kiss, and most of the time fuck the girls BEFORE they're offocially my girlfriends, so what's all the fuss for?
Yes... establishing an emotional connection leads to deeper things. However, a passionate kiss is a great way of establishing that connection. There's nothing wrong with it, you just have to make sure that both of you are having fun times. Make things memorable! Create some romance. Be a man, and don't wuss around such things as a kiss.

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Your doing good man. Your response: "I know" was perfect and alpha, while most afc's would say, "i love you 2". Girls say the "i love you" to fast and to much so it loses meaning, make sure to not use it early on in the relationship but after she really deserved it and you know she wont break your heart for something better.

You keep her guessing which is good for your attraction level so +1 for you.

Also make sure to never get under her control so she loses that "feeling" she is talking about but it seems you know what to do even though its your first relationship.

Few tips for relationships:

- Have a life outside your girl, when you made plans with friends and she asks to do something stick to your first plans.
- Be unavailable at times, when she calls during work times or when your busy its ok to not answer, you can call her back when you got time.
- Be a good leader, make decisions and don't be the "i don't know, what do you wanna do guy".
- Keep talking to girls and have a fun mindset when your around her.

Good luck bro with your first relationship!

Bottom line is she should be lucky to have you and you don't give a shit if she leaves you cause your awesome and can get any girl you please.

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You're in highschool, so making her your girlfriend before having sex with her is fine. But either this girl is super immature or crazy. This is not going to be a long, happy relationship. Check with her past boyfriends. If they seem traumatized by her (ie, she went wacked out on them), then avoid her. She's simply an emotionally manipulative woman who's out for her own kicks. If they said she cool until things fizzled and they broke up, then fire ahead. Just know that this is going to be a short, intimate, physical fling, not someone you will stay with for a while (or want to, for that matter).

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