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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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Women often do prefer their guy to be the same height or taller....

But it's irrelevant. Unless you are a midget, height presents almost no issue. Attract her and she won't even care. It's only a problem if you care. Then it will reflect in your body language and personality and you will suffer for it.

I'm 5' 9'', and while I suck with women, I prefer women taller than me, and have had better luck with them than women the same size and shorter than me.


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It's all in your head man. Cut them bitches down to your size... LOL. I'm only 5'06 and I don't have but one girl shorter than me and she 5'4(escort) Let me count them all down for you. Girl on the right in the picture 5'09(stripper), girl on the left 5'07(pornstar). My main bitch 5'10(penthouse model,pornstar,stripper,escort) my second in command, 5'08(escort,pornstar). Need I say more.....LMAO!!!

You have to just have Game Game Game. I love those long ass legs wrapped around my body as I show them who's Boss....LMAO!!!

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Yeah it sucks but it also not a big deal. I'm 5 4" and pull in some big game. Thing is have big confidence and don't make it an issue. Like I say were all the same size when were on our backs except I am about 6 inches taller then most guys. Looks are not the same deterrent for girls. Yes you need to look good and not be a complete troll but humor and energy and confidences works better than height. Once you get in it becomes less and less of an issue.

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I'm 5'8 and my ex girlfriend is 5'9 (6ft+ with stiletto's on). i met her on a website called blogtv and spoke to her for 6 months before we met irl and started dating. when i first started speaking to her she told me that she couldnt date anyone who wasnt at least 5'10. needless to say i told her a porky pie and said i was 5'10. we used to speak for hours on SPAM and got along really well. when we decided to finally meet up i started to feel worried about the lie that i told her. theres no way she's gonna like me. she's gonna think that i'm a dwarf, laugh at me and fuck off. shall i put cardboard in my trainers to make myself i little taller ?? what if i walk round tip-toe'ing while she isnt looking at my feet ? lol. anyways, finally met up, first thing she did was hug me and said "i knew you wasnt 5'10" i told her how sorry i was for lying to her but she didnt care because the attraction was already there. now i'm not telling you to lie but once a person really gets to know you and how cool you are, height and weight no longer become an issue.

she's now dating someone who's 6'4 :D


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Yep, it's all in your head. I'm 5'8 too. I've had a client who was 5'3. It's all about game. Or you can get jacked, which helps with taller women. I often use height as a false disqualifier.

"We would never work out because our pictures would look funny. I know you're vain like that..."

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U guys crack me up!!!! har har har

nooooooooooooo of course your height has NOTHING to do with success with women, if we believed that, then we might not believe well get lots of women lollll

Look guys some facts are inescapable. women like taller men, end of story. it's actually wooven in their DNA.

A tall man represents strength and security, thus ensuring survival of a womans offspring. A tall man is a good protector and generally a leader of other men.

This is why, I scoff at PUA, they tell u whatever u want to hear...u dont need to be good looking, u dont need to be tall, u can be fat and be bald and still pick up women,,,lol

When two presidential candidates run against each other Americans usually pick the tallest candidate, for much of the same evolutionary reasons.

but read this and educate yourself

Heightism is prejudice or discrimination based on height. In principle it can refer to SPAM of either unusually tall or short people.
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1 Origin of the term
2 In business
3 Dating and marriage
4 In the media
5 Legislation
6 See also
7 References
8 External links

[edit] Origin of the term

The term heightism was coined by sociologist Saul Feldman in a paper titled "The presentation of shortness in everyday life—height and heightism in American society: Toward a sociology of stature", presented at the meeting of the American Sociological Association in 1971.[1][2] Heightism was included in the Second Barnhart Dictionary of New English (1971)[3] and popularized by Time magazine in a 1971 article on Feldman's paper.[4]

The word is an example of Time magazine's habit of supplying new words through "unusual use of affixes",[5] although Time itself objected to the term's inclusion in the 1991 Random Webster's College Dictionary, citing it as an example of the dictionary "straining ... to avoid giving offense, except to good usage" and "[lending] authority to scores of questionable usages, many of them tinged with politically correct views."[6]

Heightism is one of a proliferation of neologisms relating to prejudice and discrimination that are lexically patterned after sexism.[7]
[edit] In business

Some jobs do require or at least favor tall people, including some manual labor jobs, law enforcement, most professional sports, and fashion modeling. Military pilots have to be 64 to 77 inches (160 to 200 cm) tall with a sitting height of 34 to 40 inches (86 to 100 cm).[8] Conversely certain professions have upper height limits, such as female ballet dancers who are usually required to be under 5 feet 7 inches (1.70 m).[citation needed] These exceptions noted, in the great majority of cases a person’s height would not seem to have an effect on how well they are able to perform their job. Nevertheless, studies have shown that short people are paid less than taller people, with disparities similar in magnitude to the race and gender gaps.[9][10]

A survey of Fortune 500 CEO height in 2005 revealed that they were on average 6 ft 0 in (1.83 m) tall, which is approximately 2.5 inches (6.4 cm) taller than the average American man. 30% were 6 ft 2 in (1.88 m) tall or more; in comparison only 3.9% of the overall United States population is of this height.[11] Similar surveys have uncovered that less than 3% of CEOs were below 5 ft 7 in (1.70 m) in height. Ninety percent of CEOs are of above average height.[12]
[edit] Dating and marriage

Heightism is also a factor in dating preferences. For some people, height is a noteworthy factor in sexual attractiveness.

The greater reproductive success of taller men is attested to by studies indicating that taller men are more likely to be married and to have more children, except in societies with severe gender imbalances caused by war.[13][14] However, more recent research has drawn this theory into question, finding no correlation between height and offspring count.[15] Moreover, research on leg length and leg-to-body ratio conflict with the notion that there is a distinct preference for taller mates. A 2008 study found that both extremes, tall and short, reduced attractiveness, and a 2006 study found that a lower leg-to-body ratio in men and higher leg-to-body ratio in women increased aesthetic appeal .[16][17] Biologically, from an evolutionary perspective, these findings are consistent with data relating height to human health. Therefore, a biological or, more specifically, an evolutionary argument for the preference of a taller mate is questionable, lacking definitive evidence.

Nonetheless, on a cultural level in Post-industrial society, a sociological relationship between height and perceived attractiveness exists. This cultural characteristic, while applicable to the modernized world, is not a transcendental human quality.[18] Quantitative studies of woman-for-men personal advertisements have shown strong preference for tall men, with a large percentage indicating that a man significantly below average height was unacceptable.[19] A study produced by the Universities of Groningen and Valencia, has found that men, who felt most anxious about attractive, physically dominant, and socially powerful rivals, were less jealous, the taller they were themselves.[20] The study also found that women were most jealous of others' physical attractiveness, but women of medium height were the least jealous.[21] The report, produced by Dutch and Spanish researchers, stated that because average height women tend to be the most fertile and healthy, they would be less likely to feel threatened by women with those similar features.[22]

Paradoxically, a study has shown that in Britain, short women were the most likely to be married and have children. Some reasons which have been suggested for this situation include the fact that short women start puberty earlier than taller women who experience delayed fertility since they spend more energy growing, and that shorter women have a larger pool of men to choose from if they wish for a taller mate.[22] Dr. Adam Eyre-Walker from the Centre for the Study of Evolution at the University of Sussex, argues that the study was done on British people, and so the choices may actually be a result of the influence of culture.[22]

It is unclear and debated as to the extent to which such preferences are innate or are the function of a society in which height discrimination impacts on socio-economic status. Certainly, much is always made in newspapers and magazines of celebrity couples with a notable height difference, especially where a man is shorter than his wife (for example, Jamie Cullum, 7 inches (18 cm) shorter at 5 ft 4 in (1.63 m) than Sophie Dahl, though the difference is often exaggerated).


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Most guys will say that "Its all in your head" as you have been reading, but the truth is: girls, just like us are shallow.
Why do you talk to the hot girl and not the chubby/fat one? ... Well, because we prefer the hot one over the chubby one, shallowness.
Girls are, to a point, less shallow. But ask any girl, the physical traits they want in a man, and I can bet you they mention:

"Tall, or at least taller than me"

Its a fact, and just deal with it, my height is 5'8" ... Im not tall, so I don't try to pick up a girl that's 6' or more.
I have dated girls, that are a few Cms taller than me, but thats about it, not much difference.

Girls are shallow, just as we are, and height is important to them.


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women are far more shallow than men.

U see pua talk about how u see beautiful women with ugly guys all the time, i havent!

I have seen in from time to time, usually the guy is a lwayer or has a great job or something.

PUAs say all u need to do is groom yourself properly and dress nice, and women will be yours.

Us guys know that a homely looking girl who gets dressed up in a beautiful dress, and smiles and has good posture, does not interest us.

No matter what she does or says we wont want her, at least not for dating. If we get drunk, certainly we might do her, depending on how homely she was

yet we are to believe that women will want us regardless.

U gotta have something else to offer a woman if u a big fat and ugly, sometimes they will overlook it, but what will be your pitch? your great DMH story?


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I know a couple who are married and both are F-16 fighter pilots. She is 6'1" and he is 5'9". They are the same rank, but she recently became a DO (essentially a vice squadron commander) and he didn't. They're not in the same squadron, but still, talk about awkward. Somehow, he still manages to pull off being the Alpha.


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At 5'06 I'm short compared to all of my girls. My two best are both model heights. One is 5'10 and the other is 5'09. I love tall girls. I love them wrapping those long legs around me in the bed. And besides. In the bed we all the same size...LOL. But I love the faces I get walking into a club or bar with one of my tall girls walking behind me. It just makes other girls wonder how the hell I could have such a fine bitch and naturally they come to meet me.

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I'll make this quick since it looks like you've got a lot of help already.

Chief & birdman are right.

You're the prize & you need to realize that height is not an issue.

I'm 5'2 (shortest one from what I've read so far) & I make out with ladies that are at least 5'6 & taller. I honestly wish I could find people my height or shorter but I haven't had much luck, except with this one chick that had a bf but that's another story.

You have to portray a confident image of yourself. Just as others have said, watch your body language, make sure you're not slouching as others have said & keep your chin up buddy! I'm short as fuck, but women see past that once I speak with them. Always approach with confidence. Hell, if I had your height, I'd be more than confident! haha. Not but seriously, just be chill, relax, & don't let it get to you. YOU are the prize, make them work for you. If it really bothers you that much, next time just use frame control turn it around on them. =]


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