Our interaction went from "Delete my number, I don't like you." to "Send me a pic of you."

Wednesday, 5 days later after we met. She's testing me like crazy, and boy she has reason for that... a HB-fucking 9-10. I didn't realize the text I got Saturday "Delete my number" was a test, people were telling me she didn't like me. My innerself told me she liked me and so I followed my own advice. Yesterday, 5PM I text her and tell her I won't give up until I get enough reason to. We start talking again and still she's throwing it all at me. "You have no respect for women" "Your gaming skills suck" "Leave me alone". I simply kept talking and making fun of her behavior and so did we end up exchanging pics. I now realize why I approached her, tits from here to tokyo, nice brown skin, beefy legs I'd love to put my teeth in. I wanked of in the shower at gym.

I realize that I can't be too happy, she's just another girl and she can drop me whenever she wants. Until our first date nothing in me will get too attached to her.

My message is: Persistance pays off.

“You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.”
Wayne Gretzky

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Approaching, and yes Wednesday is gymday today. I might have been out for an hour-hour and half in total and got 14 approaches in the pocket. I wasn't really going out with the goal the talk, comfort blabla.. I just wanted to approach whatever 7+ I saw moving. I think the approach-bitch ratio was like 9/10 here. *Clap clap*.

All the conversations are in the video, English. I need to work on talking though, I talk like I have no time to lose lol. Going out with mum and grandpa for a little something and will see if I go out again or not. There's this arabic religious girl btw, wants to go out with me today. Told her it couldn't work and still, I don't want to give her regret afterwards.


VIDEO TO COME HERE... in the meanwhile, I'm wondering, R u OK?

The first 3 approaches were like warmup to me. rest went a little better

[video=youtube_share;sfflL46Tf9o]http://youtu.be/sfflL46Tf9o[/video]

My goals...

I feel the need for a stronger inner game now. As I started back 2 months ago I was okay with being needy, whining, not initiative taking. I was afraid to hurt people with the things I'd say or do. Thinking about it now I can't let myself accept this behavior anymore. There is no place for those kind of feelings for the goals I want to reach, feeling better myself and socially. I don't believe one can have a strong inner game if he has nothing to strive for, neither can you reach what you strive for if you don't know to love yourself. Find a reason to live for!

I'm sure it'll be difficult in the beginning to make this shift in my mind, but it has to be done now. I'm gonna act on these from now on. Shit happens in this world an wondering how it could be different if I would have done this and that -> do it different next time.

I'm glad I found out.

'We should have a drink after you end your work here'. 'Yes'

They said approaching people at work is difficult. Made me not do it and was like a second bunch of bitch butterflies. I told myself to go for it and went. A cute brown mixed skin, HB8 and babe she all of that. I went in and told her she looked cute and should get a drink together. She couldn't at that moment, not letting go of her I tell her to write up my number as her she risked to get fired otherwise. Now writing this I get a text from her so definately not so bad.

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19-7 I went out today with the idea to be out all day and approach, numbers, talk. Now I got tired and the fun of it went away a little so here I am home after 3hours of being out. First challenge of the day was in what language I should approach and after lots of bullshit in my head I decide to go for English, every quality woman talks it and so is the language fuckin romantic imo. I looked like I was on some kind of drugs, I see, go, oh shit I see a better looking girl than I'm talking to,, byebye and there I go in again. Most people were open and got a 6ish numbers when I told them I saw them walking and they looked cute, making me to decide to go and say hi to them. Thanks to Nobody's hint of putting more emotion in it and being genuine I watched that and yes he was right. I tried approaching them as like it was a line studied to find out and yes.. they just walk away.

It got fun for me when I got this woman somewhere from Asia, HB8-9.. approach I tell her I couldn't just ignore her and walk by. We have a great talk and I get the feeling she wants to fuck badass in secret, while having a man and 2 children. Now how should I go about it?, Do I tell her I have no skills in bed and she can learn it to me right

I feel though, the better I get, the more difficult I handle rejection. It might have been just today or the boredom I had towards the end but after so much good ones it felt strange. I told myself I wouldn't go home feeling like that and approach this Haitian HB6.5. She wasn't the best looking but oh I liked her gaze, it almost felt romantic. Conversation today was good, everything was actually . Another thing that feels so good is the feeling of not being so attached. I now start having some people in my life and because of that I don't care so much about losing someone that doesn't fit in my life. This HB9 I told about earlier told me she lied and actually has a boyfriend, well OK she wanted to be friends but fuck that srsly... even though something could happen I'm not gonna waste my time on her being in the unknown.

The woman I met tuesday wants to fuck me but she has an ugly face, lol I'm glad I found out women want it as much if not more than we do. Society tells to much bs.

I had problems recording (my legs get worked out so good they become to big and push the stop button of the recorder). I only include the longer ones as there are really so much I did today...

[video=youtube_share;0TstOGVshss]http://youtu.be/0TstOGVshss[/video]
*Last one is the working girl and for some reason it cut off the recording.

Approach Anxiety. A couple of tips as gift back for what you guys have given me.

I see lots of people writing in their FR about it. I know the feel and not having this anymore I feel in the right place to help some of you with it. Now AA/BB is a kind of mechanism hardwired in you, accept it, in the form of being nervous it will ALWAYS come back the next day. You don't struggle as much with it as you did the every first approaches don't you? The point is that everytime over and over it will come back in the form of feeling nervous. Now what do you do about it?

What helped for me is going out and doing the most awkward things like yelling, jumping, being very impolite and so many other things in public. Get youself known with what feels uncomfortable and learn to do it anyway. Associate the feeling of being nervous with something else than failure which is something that doesn't exist btw. On the other side think about how you'll feel so good after that approach, how you are being a MAN, wonder about what funny shit will come out of your mouth.. things like that.

Fear being feared and eliminate it as much as you can.

For tomorrow, points of focus:

Talk and walk slower
Mirroring
A kiss on the cheek together with the handshake - kino
Stronger eye contact


Had a call with my wing being back in Africa for a while. Women fuck like there ain't no tomorrow there. And why? I believe because there is less influence of things like movies, society etc.. to brainwash them and make them believe they're sluts. Well on the other side, less stds here He advised me to go higher on the kinoing and that's what I'm gonna do by some handholding, caressing, as much as I can get away with. I wish him best of luck. Pump them full of your mannschaft !

"Give me your hand,, *360*,, mmm well that's looking good!"

She's calling with a friend of her, she tells me it's an emergency. After finishing the call and me waiting a minute or two I tell her to get a seat on the metro. We start talking and turns out we connect quite good, we laugh and talk like we've been friends for years. I feel pretty comfortable making jokes, including people around, she tells me to get out a stop earlier than I had to "WTF" I was thinking. Once out she tells me she didn't like people to hear our conversation and so we continued for a while, her asking to please let one more metro go by. I escalate the kino and she accepts, she now get's this thing I can't describe and I can clearly see her being attracted more and more. We change numbers and continue our conversation on the metro. I let her know this is not gonna be a frienship and test her a little... Later I gotta go out and tell her to come out with me and wait for the next just like I did for her, she agrees but makes this 'Pfffhouh' making it sound like she doesn't want to (with a smile though). I noticed her on the fact I would be her master in bed even though she's like 12yo older than me, she loled. She says something that makes no sense and later I tell her I'm going, we hug like there's no tomorrow.

We're gonna have a date soon and I'm about to put my tooth in her ass, she said I look like a shark in bed so she get's a shark! She lives at a place where they have a lake with some pedalboats on, sounds cool to do imo. I can even rape her without she being able to escape

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20-7 Gymday, nothing much to say... approached a couple of good looking women despite the few there were (rain). Most of them were looking at me like huh? or didn't talk English in which case I just eject. Eyecontact was really good, walking/talking was OK, kino too and mirroring needs more work IMO.
I might go out later today if suns' there and else it's tomorrow.

Okay I went out again , starts raining and it was pretty much the same as usual. I didn't close with anyone but had a few talks. I have to put more passion in it as it sometimes sounds like I'm really studying a line and say it without emotion. So that's a thing I have to watch for, and else than that just conversating and blabla. I was going out for the sake of going so I didn't care so much about going or not, did 5-6 sets though. LOL @ a set of 4 where one though I was racist for calling the group 'black'.

On the bus back I bitched a little, I was like 'boy cmon this is not happening'. I have those up and down days, excluding the numbers I get vs ejects I sometimes struggle to keep a convo going or simply approach on a bus, I see that like my new "me" testing me out. If it wouldn't I would be satisfied to quick and that's bad. So I'm entering home and see a neighbour of me, I think like 'fuck everybody in the building can know I want to fuck her' and have a laugh, tell her I'm eating at her place next week. DEAL !

*Keep pushing and don't give up when it doesn't go super duper.
*Not being a robot when opening
*Gonna try to start talking with statements instead of questions. I'd not answer some kind of questions from a stranger either.
*Eye contact
*Kino

Man "steals" my girl. Fucking angry at myself !

So it's going OK, I'm not even approaching them all, what a bitch am I?. I meet this woman like 30-35yo old, she's from Florida. While buying myself a drink (I have a very dry mouth here), this 50+yo starts getting to know her, having good talk and I stand there like a minute thinking about what I can do. I figure out the best I can do is join the 2 and talk to him, then leave with the woman but NO I bitched. I was and am pissed off !

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21-7 Approached like 15 people today, didn't go so great however... I met a polish girl with bigass tits that was soo into me, changed numbers. Most were just 'You're cute, I had to come and meet you' 'Okay thanks I can't talk right now' approaches. I was so pissed after what happened with the American woman I couldn't laugh that much anymore. I had a long talk with a french woman, turned out to be ugly without glasses, same counts for the 2 other girls (from france too) I met.

I already knew that my game wasn't tiptop and today is like a big and HARD lesson to me. I'm certainly not having enough confidence to keep going (=persistance) and willing to burst my ego. I have this fucked up thing in my head that wants me to be a person looked on as good, and how the fuck can I be that without willing to fail. Things were going so good lately I'm getting a fucking cunt worrying about ego. Pfft I'm gonna meditate this evening and push every time my head says NO 'Oh they may laugh when this won't work', 'shes muslim' or 'shit the man is gonna cockblock'. TRY TRY TRY AND FIND THE FUCK OUT!

BAH I hate regret, on the other side today has learned me what the problem is more specifically. This is not the first and last time, I know!


Little list for things to remember from now on:
Approach even if she's with a man, even her bf, I can only find out (except if holding hands, kissing etc)
Not everyone is gonna be into me
Stop caring about what the girl will think of me when our conversation would end nowhere (stop giving a fuck)
Stop thinking and go
I might be doing something 'strange' in the eyes of others but i'm not a creep.
*PUSH true comfort zone by looking people in the eyes, going when finding excuse.
*Emotion on my face

I didn't really pay attention but I think to remember that it went better by approaching from the back.. not sure but will try out both ways more.

Seeing the old kong videos made me realize everybody has to go trough what I go. It's now that I have to keep going more than ever !

"You're so couragous. Alot of men are just scared to approach me"

I saw her standing at the busstop, the african HB5.5,21 years old marketing student. I saw her standing and could decide between walking alone or getting this girl to miss her tram and go with me. I told myself to atleast conversate for 15minuts and so did I. It turned out we have some things in common and understand eachothers view on life. I didn't care about getting her in or not and that might be why I was so open with her. One moment though, I got a little nervous after she asked me whether she's the only black girl I approached and I, being honest told 'no, I approach more people and that's the only way you gonna filter out the bad ones'. She couldn't agree more... we kept walking and talking, me getting better at my kino skills pushing trough the 'no' in my head, then told her to leave her at the next stop and I went for a couple of other sets.

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22-7 I learned A LOT from yesterday! I just approached whatever looked acceptable and immediately get to talk with this chick (21) at the stop on my way to gym. Turns out she just had a breakup and doesn't believe in men anymore.. too bad I liked her ass and conversations went OK (some silences but we). Out of the metro again I see a girl sitting alone, had to get her bus so byebye.

Gymtime over and just closing the door I see a booomb coming my direction, go go go! the lovely girls is so cute eventhough she has no big ass we have a good conversation, touching, eyecontact.. there was something in the air and I'm not talking about clouds here . Anyway going down again taking the metro (subway) I see an arabic, OK-looking girl. Approached her and was a bit creeped out so I get up and appraoch this married woman, had a great convo with her and got out at my stop. I really see myself getting better at talking in public, props to myself! On my way upstairs I approach some other woman, has a boyfriend, smokes, I just went because I hate fear and why walk alone and talk in your head if you can talk with someone else while practising being social? The answer is obvious! I came in the 'tourist zone', lots of tourist, lots of approaching, girls being open and this is how my day ends with 2# closes out of 10-12 approaches. Again I'm the boss today for going through some barriers, but not all!

It's now 2 months I'm in and I definately see progress. I remember freaking out like 10 minuts sitting next to a girl before starting in a stuttering opener: 'Yyyoou hhave-nice-nails'. Now I just go up and tell them the shit. And the longer I'm getting better, the more I see that there a only few who're willing to give up for their dreams. What's the point of a man's life if he's not taking risks and always in need of progress? I don't see any good in staying in the safe-zone as that's what women are supossed to do. MAN ARE FUCKING PREDATORS, we have to manage our own emotions and go through fear, women screen you for that.

*Eye-contact, showing emotion on my face, going in more difficult situations... I did it ! I'm still hesitating when it's a girl and a guy as the chance is big they're together. I have to go anyway though, I only find out by going.

*I still need work on my phone game though, it might be because of the fact I'm pretty young to some of the girls, but some girls I made good connection with just won't text back. I know on the other side, that them texting back or not is not totally my fault. Some women just won't text back whatever the timespan your conversation was, others texting you every minute after only talking to em 5minuts. As I said I have to keep em interessed and try more phone calls.

"Excuse me, I think you have a beautifull daughter and I'd love to meet her if that's ok with you.'

That's how my opener went. While I'm telling this again in French as she didn't get it in English, I see her daughter smiling and she's like 'OMG, is this really happening?!!'. The mother thought I was pretty confident and looked well behaved so I pass the first door as I say with a figure of speech. They have to go they say and I'm not letting the HB9 go like that so I ask her number. While doing this the mother interrupts and goes in interview-mode asking questions like "Do you work?" "Why did you approach in English?" blabla. I must have answered all the questions like a boss and got an A for seduction. In the end I gave my number (mum wanted it that way) and we'll see eachother, hopefully... soon. I felt fucking boss doing this infront of the other people waiting for the red light to turn green.

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23-7 The sun shines, not a single cloud to be seen in the skies, I go out for an hour or 2 and do what I couldn't do.

Well 1st approach is this woman in the bus who turned out to be married. I'm sitting by myself in a bus with maybe 10people max and I decide to go for it.
Me: Don't you mind I come sit next to you?
HB8: No problem
Me: Well to be honest, you're cute and I have to meet you
HB8: I'm married
Me: ** I start talkin about other stuff and as she mentions her husband is black I tell her she'd must be lucky with a BigBlackCock.**
She burts out laughing, so does the black guy sitting behind me telling his friend 'tfuck is he sayin'

Some other hot-making approaches turning out nothing happen and then I meet the Equadorian chick, BIG ass, ugly face I didn't see. I decide to get it as far as I can. We start talking and we had a good talk, maybe 5-10minuts and I learned she lives alone in an appartment, so why not train a little before the big competition. I got her number just in case, know am sayin'! Anyway, after that I keep approaching and approaching until I see a group of 2, well they looked good from far and I went in. At first they go like, 'okay another guy approach' until I tell em 'WAIT' and they open up. I end up getting both them to laugh, have a good time and their numbers. Not sure if I'm gonna use them though. Anyways.. I keep approach getting short talks, married chicks or plain NO's, I don't give a fuck about a NO anymore, me being relax I guess.

Fun thing is, I went into a shop to buy socks, the shop being the same I did my very second approach in. Second approach aka stuttering, not knowing what doing, tremblin approach. The woman sees me and is like 'tfuck has happened to him', she sees me and runs out of the store? lol. I had some fun-ass talk with the ladies working there, cool. I'm so proud remembering myself to stress bigtime even to ask for socks.

*Gotta work on showing emotion and genuiness though, most approaches after the mother-daughter set were bad as I looked like I was not caring, random approaching the girl/woman.*
*Approach even more
*Don't forget kino mr.!

I know think of a solution to the a boy telling 'they're both my lover' when I approach a 3set. Next time I tell him to kiss them.

[video=youtube;VKPiBeZOkxg]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VKPiBeZO ... ure=fvwrel[/video]

"You clearly know how to seduce mothers"

I'm talking about the mother-daughter set yesterday and I must have done great as this is what I get texted back. Now she seems like a neat girl so I'm gonna be cautious with what I say to her. Anyway, reading this made my day, hope to see her soon and get to know her better.

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24-7

I suprise myself everyday lol. I was tired as fuark, not in the mood etc.. I see a hottie coming, hesitating for a second or 2. I know that not going means regret or suicide so I go in, wasn't interested in me so I ejected and she said no to a good lover. Just out of the bus, 2 hot girls, sisters and I approach. Now they both looked interessed and when I said I'd go out with HB2, HB1 started cockblocking, well...
blabla, I'm at the gym having some talk with an old man, who BTW is very good at conversation and made me realize I have to talk more about myself when I meet new people instead of interviewing them and giving them NOTHING about me. Excercises done, a good shower and I'm out. Closed the door and start jogging to a good looking girl, turns out she's way too young and I eject. Walking walking walking, enter metro and I meet a married woman, HOT as fuark and we keep talking, trading FB which will turn out nothing.

Weather is nice so I pass by the shopping street and close 2 Spanish girls visiting, they both WANTED me baddd. I'm gonna date the hottest as the other one couldn't talk English. After that follow 2 'no's' so I walk until I see a big black dude giving out flyers and a girl talking. She didn't talk English so the BBD had to translate everything and at a moment fucked up doing that so lol I tell her she should learn some English, dude respected me and still I gave him too much attention. Going down the escalator to take the metro home I see an Arabic chick going down. "STOP!" was what I said and we have a quite decent talk, she asks me for my number as we split our ways soon and hope to meet her soon. Mmmmmetrooo-ride.....ok I get out, get the stairs up, sit down and wait for my bus... until I see boobs, ass ass ass. I have to decide between sitting there and going in, lol seriously? I go ofc! She has a bf and told her we'd be 'friends', she LOVEED me and we change numbers... hope to meet her soon too.

Oh between the approaches I saw my ex-crush back when I was afc and needy. I walked up to her and talked, she was like 'NO? is that him?' ahhh feels good.

I seriously start giving fucks about what people think of me, you get ME or you get nothing.. no fake shit. My style is the more funny and being smart kind. I love it when a woman likes my humor, I like hers and that we can talk serious at time. So for example I just texted the arabic girl from the sub: "I was gonnna wait to text, but then I took an arrow in the knee - ***" this is how I give them my number (when not exchanging).

*Girl I should date with today said to meet even she had done a white night and now doesn't answer. fuck it, i'm not going out with zombies.
*No convo's, I have a short memory lol. Don't ask me to remember a face or name of someone.

I have trouble with this hot weather baah, I like it but it's so difficult to stay cool... I wear more layers as I have still got alot of weight to lose. I weigh myself and I lost a good 2kg SPAM, so 6-7kg to go and that means a month or 4-5 of strict dieting. For anybody interested in pics, PM me and I'd be more than happy to help with workout routines and weight loss if you're willing to really work for it.

Taking dance lesson whenever I get an acceptable (to me) body. Ahh I'd love to be as energetic as him. I'd like to thank this community for what I've learned from you guys, posters, videos, everything! You've helped me all to do what it takes to control my own life and I realize that I'm still learning, just as even the PRO's are. I stay open for new ideas and tips


To work on:
*Go in stores to approach
*Keep going when she smiles and tells shit.

25-7 30°C outside, burning up... girls in tops.

Before going out I had a talk with one of my brothers (my twin) and as I was telling about how far I've come he made me realize to keep going out the comfort zone. I don't have any hesitation anymore, just on some occasions and I do pretty good in the malls and streets. However, public transport (bus, tram, metro) and shops are things I've done very few times so I had in mind to dedicate today to focus on that. I've done a shitload of approaches (20, no much hesitation anymore) and had quite good conversations so I'm not gonna post them all and just the more focused ones.

So I'm in the bus and see a pretty baby with high heels on, she gives me fever like I've never ever known.. nah serious she hot so I'm like 'hmm not doing this is plain wrong' and I go have a seat next to her and open her. She's smiling and likes it and I could read her face being shy as fuck so it end up being nothing. I'm gonna work on my conversational skills more as I see that is something I'm on the more lacking side of. After getting out approached a married woman sitting at the subway. Next zone-breaking approach (like the word) is this woman who just came out of the metro with her father, she was damn hot and I approach the father... I could tell of her face that she was loving it, father was cool. Too bad that she was married.

I met two old people from school (one being cool, the other one I hate for what he had done to me). Now anyway.. approached an asian woman working at the waffles shop, boyfriend. I also approached another married woman working in some kind of natural thing shop and she was thinking this was a dream imo, lol. She told me she was flattered and would love to hang out but can't... Me, myself I think I'm doing a pretty good job now, I really improve, my efforts every day start to payoff. Anyway I walk, pass the girl working at the chocolate shop, ignore her and a little further see a hot woman working in some appartments selling stuff so I go up to her... married and I decide to check out how far I can get. I tell her we're gonna hang out as friends and change numbers, husband came in, lol and acted cool with him. Now I don't expect much from this and I'm gonna check out how far things can go.

I went to the shopping street later, taking the metro and approach a mother-daughter-friend of the daughter set, a NO, daughter keeps smiling (fuck she had a smile). On the metro I chicken a little until another arabic looking girl came in and I thought 'fuck bitch' and I get up, approach her... she tells me she's not interested. As I was a little nervous I was talking silent and saying strange things so work on, and I'm happy I did it . Oh and I'd like to use this as an oppertunity to say 'HI guys!' to all the people that were giving me those strange looks afterwards, you made me realize how MAN I am.

Out of the metro I did more approaches, but nothing really comfort breaking, except another mother-daughter, not interested in me. Had quite a nice day

I got a text from the arabic girl with her mother I met Monday I think, date tomorrow 10-11PM, ;D

Tonight a date with the arabic girl.

Hell I'm prepared for the unevitable. On a more serious note, I see her this evening, getting a drink, a walk afterwards and hopefully more. She's pretty into me, didn't have to do much to get that lol. I guess it comes from my approach being good and the girl being rarely hit on. I've included a little part of my texts.

She: How are you?
me: Oh so your mother accepted me. : ) Sun shining, met a sunshine yesterday.. how about you?
She: Well if the sun's shining everythings good. Yeah accepted You clearly know how to seduce mothers : )
me: Mothers only? Admit that I did a good job seducing you too.. couldn't help it: )
She: I wouldn't say seduced, rather I'm intrigued How many languages do you talk?
me: The language of love : )
She: Haha gotta teach me that Anyway you make me laugh : )
.... set up date from here.

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26-7 Went to the gym and hit on every girl except a few I saw. It's getting boring so I'm taking a day off tomorrow and maybe even the weekend. I just have a moment where I lost the fun doing it, and that's bad. I've been going out everyday for 2months now and as fun's more or less gone, I just approach and don't bother going as far as I can. I did some approaches, maybe ten or something but not much more than that. Well lol there were these girls talking fckn loud and I just went up and told the hotter one random bullshit followed by 'well you're cute' and so she end up complimenting me like crazy, asking my number, going out lol. I was so indifferent about what'd happen that she noticed it and got attracted, even when I told them I was gay. You can really bullshit them once you've got attraction.
Other than that, just the usual and I was gonna approach a woman, turns out we already met. I forgot her name, everything lmao that's so bad. Gotta work on my memory..

DATE REPORT

Well had a date yesterday and she was HOT. We've been for a drink and talked like an hour and half or so. She and I have lots in common and I hope so to her again . She was kinoing so that pushed me to kino her too, even if it felt strange in the beginning. After a while I tell her something like "Give me your hand" and from then on we start handholding. Now at some moment I wanted to hug her and she said it was too soon (she seems to be a slow person to build up with) and then I say nothing, thinking about something else she said. She took it like i was angry, pisses me off. Anyway I didn't kiss her, bitch... On our way back she would be smacking me with her tshirt all the time whenever I'd tease her. I loved the moment she touched my face to 'get the spiderweb off'.. ahh. I slapped her ass a few times with the playfully 'no don't do that' look.. wanted to fuck her bad

Now to talk about conversation I've been teasing, storytelling, great... at some moment she was changing what she said ealier to align with how I like something, gold . Things like that'd she go to the gym and workout to be perfect to me. I fucked up on some things though, points to work on next date..

-I was bragging about my personallity. stop
-Trust her, listen to her.
-I should be more calm.
-Dunno if this is bad but I'd always mimic her voice when her's would crack.
-I forgot her name ffffffssss

I texted her an hour after the date to tell her I liked it and will set up one soon, need help on how to do it in a good way though.