hey guys,
thought i might update a little on this scenario here. its definitly worth a read.
so, last year i literally wimped out on this bird in question. cut my losses, went out, made a lot of mistakes with other girls, somewhat learnt but ive come a long way from my old AFC self. however, this time around, after 6 months of a non-deliberate freezout, i decided to add her on Facebook. she was with some mental juicehead for a couple of month's and had fallen for him quite clearly. however he's dumped her for someone else. she re-initiated contact after the add just before my 29th b-day - three weeks ago, but this time my frame was a lot firmer than what it was. the banter was cool. found out she is actually 19.
the convo went something like this.
Her: Hey how are you?
me: Very fkn Hungover. Thats how. N U?
Her: hahaha how your supposed to be on a sunday. im good long time no talk.
me: I kno Ryt? went 2 a houswarming. cannot describe how loose, shit got there. whats new down ure end? u behavin?
Her: Hahah oh dear...umm not much really
..never! na work, my son, the usual.
me. meeen. hows the little munchkin?
then it carried n to kids talk.... number closed through facebook
texted this:
Me: **** - My Monkey! its ** . keep this number safe and hidden. its gunna come handy soon no doubt
HER: hahah
. Hey ** yeah im sure it will
fast forward to my b-day
Her: Happy B-Day **! hope you have had an awesome day so far. X
me : Thanx my munchkin! hope ur merry about now. town shud be good
i f/closed someone else that night so didnt bother too much with her.
fast forward to the next weeknd.
me: Monkey!!!! Town this weeknd?
her: Monkey2! Y yes sat night i'l be out
me : hey hey, lets not get this twisted! you're my sidekick. ther's an unspoken spot open dependin on how well ur gunna behave
her : ahahah ohh is that right is it? Bad! im always bad lol but in the best kinda way.
long story short, met up with her in town, completely burnt an HB8 that i k/closed at a party that i was at prior to meetup with the HB9. then k/closed HB9 in town, bounced to mine and F/closed. i was thrilled. had a oneitis with one of my earlier squeezes this year, and this girl made it disappear. as previosly said, shes a genuine HB9. my first of that breed. my attitude towards girls changed so much that shes the new benchmark when it comes to looks.
now here are some issues.
* when i was in a cab with her, her ex called her and txted her. this i know because she dropped her phone on the puddle and when i went to pick it up, there was a message. the next day she mentioned shes still fresh and not ready for a relationship
* her ex still calls her and likes her facebook status's. she said she fell hard for him in 2 months. im pissd at this. at the end, im annoyed hes still trying. not at her
* im still workin on my needy issues. kept calling her cute quite a bit
the sex IMo was shit. i was so drunk, i could barely maintain it. i still made her moan and cum (According to her) . did the afc apologizing and said ill make it up the next morning but she said shes tired and to save it for next time.
* Bought her a drink as i was gonna get one and paid for the taxi and dropped her home since i was headed out of town the next morning an her house was on the way.
sent her a lame ass text saying : just went to the supermarket and seen a banana. fully got reminded of you. how goes it monkey 2?
no reply....
did i just fuk up or what? or did she use me for rebound? whats the best way to proceed? tbh i wouldnt mind having this chick around for a bit
CHAT
i been ok xcept its freezin n there's a big hole in my front door window after the wknd. long story. ill tell you if your lucky enough 