So I figured another one of REALLY helpful beliefs,
it's not much about PUA, it's more about life.

Life isn't work, it's a self-service.
You DON'T FIGHT for happiness, you just enjoy everything.

Reading Eckhart Tolle's "The Power Of Now" would help you understand the belief and deepen it.

...and yeah, you must live in The Now, for it to work at its best.


Little examples.
- So a girl starts arguing with you or something,
You just think how to make the situation fun for you (EMPATHY is key here).
- You're tired of something really repetitive,
MAKE IT FUN.
- You're being picked on a by some massive guy,
You could have fun of yourself being brave, smart and playful in such a serious situation.

LIFE IS NEVER SERIOUS AND HAS NEVER BEEN.
And we were never born to WORK or GET TIRED. We were born to be happy.
Remember that.

From NLP: You can feel however you want to feel at this moment.

Thank You for reading this and please leave your thoughts about it. (I love replies.)
PS. This has ALREADY helped me, so I hope it helps you too.

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LIFE IS A FUNNY MOTHARFUCKUR. ;3

Great post man! I totally agree. It's all about living in the present and enjoying every moment that it has to offer you. You literally have no choice right? Be thankful for every crazy situation you find yourself in. Embody this concept and let it flow through you like water.

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that's cool and all but when im in the heat of the moment, i cant focus on those things :/

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You miss every shot you don't take.

Just install this thinking, you won't need to FOCUS on it later, you'll know that. Delete anything that conflicts from your mind.
You can try self-hypnosing yourself or affirmations. Just tell yourself why and how you're gonna live.

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LIFE IS A FUNNY MOTHARFUCKUR. ;3

great post. made me think about the days when i was in the 8th grade and everything i did or thought of was for the purpose of FUN. coincidently a lot of girls had a crush on me during that time...hmmmm...