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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 8:16 am 
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Just so you know, we're in high school. I've known this girl for 3 years and I was an EXTREME AFC back then. I used to change my entire schedule by the off chance that I could hang out with her. After being friendzoned, we somehow managed to become best friends. She even told me "You're so perfect! My overprotective mother even loves you. I hope one day I can find a guy like you."

Last December, my best friend (girl) got a new boyfriend who was extremely jealous of me. A couple weeks into their relationship he gave her the ultimatum that it was either him or me and sadly she chose her boyfriend. She completely cut me out of her life (blocked me on facebook and SPAM and deleted my number).

A couple days ago she broke up with him and quickly called me from her friend's phone (she deleted my number). When I answered she apologized and begged me to be a part of my life again. I told her she didn't deserve me but decided to add her back on facebook anyway.

The last 3 days have been full of apologies from her and her attempts to hang out with me and get my phone number like "This Saturday I'm teaching a dance to my dance club. Wanna come and help me teach like the old days?" I told her I'd think about it. Then she proceeded to continue to apologize and beg me to hang out with her. She keeps saying things like "Regret never hurt me this much" and "i wanna blame others but i can't and i can't sleep anymore."

For old friendships sake I want to forgive her but she disappeared during a very stressful point in my life. So, I'm thinking about taking this opportunity to try to get out of the friendzone and take her on a day 2. (She knows nothing about the things I've done as I'm learning how to be a PUA, except for the fact that I've dated a lot while she was gone and even went on a day 2 with one of the hottest girls in school.) Any advice?



If it was too long, basically she became my friend after I asked her out 3 years ago. We've been through a lot together. A couple months ago she got a boyfriend who was extremely jealous of me and told her that it was him or me. She cut me out of her life and blocked all possible way of contact. 3 days ago she broke up with her boyfriend and called me using her friend's phone apologizing. She added me on facebook saying things like "Regret never hurt me this much" and "i wanna blame others but i can't and i can't sleep anymore." She disappeared during a stressful time in my life so I find it hard to forgive her but she's inviting me to help her teach her class this saturday. I want to take this opportunity to get out of the friendzone. Any advice? (She knows nothing about the things I've done as I'm learning how to be a PUA, except for the fact that I've dated a lot while she was gone and even went on a day 2 with one of the hottest girls in school.)


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 12:45 pm 
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You need to decide what YOU want?

Do you want to fuck her?

Do you want her as your GF?

Do you want her as your BFF, and be her jiz towel the rest of your life?

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I'd prefer a relationship. Basically from what you told me to read I need to give her an ultimatum and just be extremely direct with her. Right?


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I'd prefer a relationship. Basically from what you told me to read I need to give her an ultimatum and just be extremely direct with her. Right?
Absolutely! 8)

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I'd prefer a relationship. Basically from what you told me to read I need to give her an ultimatum and just be extremely direct with her. Right?
Absolutely! 8)
Dude... it worked. I'm now in a relationship with my best friend. Thanks man :)


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Glad for you man !

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I'd prefer a relationship. Basically from what you told me to read I need to give her an ultimatum and just be extremely direct with her. Right?
Absolutely! 8)
Dude... it worked. I'm now in a relationship with my best friend. Thanks man :)
what exactly did you say to her?


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Absolutely! 8)
Dude... it worked. I'm now in a relationship with my best friend. Thanks man :)
what exactly did you say to her?
I took her to our favorite arcade and said everything that we've been through, all the hints I've dropped, and that I can't waste my time on you anymore if we're only going to be friends. Since she knows I've been learning pick up artistry I told her that I had to cancel some day 2's because all I could think of was her so it didn't feel right. So after two hours of laying everything on the table I said "I can only say one of two things now... good bye or I like you." She begged me to stay so I asked her out and now we're dating.

She claimed that she's been waiting for me for the last 3 years too...


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Congrats Bro....congrats

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