I found this on the Cosmo forum (I was looking for the article on The Game as mentioned in another post-couldn't find it). This article may be useful to PUAs, especially if they are in a relationship. My apologies if it's been posted before.

50 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew...

1. Don't tell us when you think other girls are hot.
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don't expect us to dress like Victoria Secret models.
4. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.
5. There is no such thing as too much spooning.
6. Just because you L the C doesn't mean we have to S the D.
7. This is how we see it . . . Don't call = Don't Care.
8. Which also means that if we don't call, take the hint.
9. We like you to be a little jealous . . . but overly possessive is not necessary.
10. Putting things in our butt does not turn us on.
11. Return favors: we massage, you massage; we go down, you go down; we shave, you shave (and not just your face).
12. Foreplay is not an option . . . its a prerequisite.
13. We're allowed to be late . . . you are not.
14. Eye contact is key.
15. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
16. Laugh at our jokes.
17. Three words . . . honesty, honesty, honesty.
18. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers.
19. We never have to wonder if your orgasm was real.
20. Do not start with us. You will not win... not kidding .. we ALWAYS win
21. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? We didn't think so.
22. If you ask nicely, we usually answer the same way.
23. We will never have enough clothes or shoes!
24. We have an excuse to act bitchy at least once a month.
25. Open the door for us no matter where we are . . . even at our house and getting into the car.
26. We love surprises!
27. We liked to be kissed softly, not with an iron tongue.
28.Pay attention to the little things we do, because they mean the most.
29. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometiems . . . NEVER whitey-tighties, NEVER!
30. Clean your room before we come over.
31. Always brush your teeth before you see us . . . a fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
32. When we use our teeth it means that you suck at going down on us, so we are just returning the favor.
33. Even though you are sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
34. Hit it and quit it, because later I'll be with you're best friend and he lasts for hours.
35. Don't act hard around your friends because I won't make you hard tonight.
36. Sometimes "NO!" really means "NO!"
37. "Wife Beaters" are not an adequate form of fashion.
38. If we wanted to be on video tape, we'd be a porn star not your girlfriend.
39. Sensitive guys are great . . . but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.
40. Don't let ex-girlfriends cause drama, relationships are stressful enough.
41. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
42. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman.
43. "Fat Chicks" have feelings too.
44. Silent SPAM, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling and nasty looks all add up to . . . YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG!
45. If you are not a good dancer, please be self-aware.
46. Just because a girl doesn't pick up on the first ring doesn't mean she's not waiting by the phone.
47. You don't have to spend a lot, if it means a lot.
48. Don't say you love me if you don't mean it.
49. Don't lie to us . . . we will catch you.
50. When the girls get together, we talk about EVERYTHING. Meaning my best friends know everything about you.

Interesting post. Unfortunately, I don't think there's an awful lot of useful information here though. Clearly the tone of the article is very much tongue in cheek.

Most of the qualities this article claims women desire in men would be very unnattractive in reality. Women want us to resign to the fact that we're incapable of beating them in arguments? Please. In short, lots of these tips would only be helpful for those interested in becoming an AFC.

Agreed. Following most of this stuff would make you a big AFC. It might make the girl like you when you are dating her, but eventually shes going to think your a huge pussy if you keep appeasing her and letting her when, then she'll get bored and move on. Remember, women don't actually know what they want. They just think they do. Like "We are allowed to be late...you are not." Complete bullshit. If you don't call a girl on being late but let her expect you to be on time, you are an AFC. Good knowledge though, to know what when think they want in a guy.

I hear you qwerty, but alot of these are true.
No.50 you cant tell girls a dam thing, even when you say dont tell anybody, next minute the whole bloody street knows, so dont tell girls shit, unless you want it to appear on the evening news.
I'll just stick to being mysterious, and answer all their questions in riddles.

I enjoy the idea of answering girls in riddles, though I consider myself to be somewhat riddle-inclined, I do find the idea quite humorous. Do you think that one could respond to any statement or question a girl has with a riddle, yet still be able to successfully pick them up?

50 Things Girls Wish Guys Knew...

1. Don't tell us when you think other girls are hot. (Why not, a little jealosy never hurt anyone!)
2. Whenever possible, please say whatever you have to say during commercials. (If I have something to say, that is when I say it)
3. If you don't act like soap-opera guys, don't expect us to dress like Victoria Secret models.
4. Mark anniversaries on a calendar.
5. There is no such thing as too much spooning.
6. Just because you L the C doesn't mean we have to S the D.
7. This is how we see it . . . Don't call = Don't Care.
8. Which also means that if we don't call, take the hint.
9. We like you to be a little jealous . . . but overly possessive is not necessary. (Hypocrites, refer to number 1)
10. Putting things in our butt does not turn us on.
11. Return favors: we massage, you massage; we go down, you go down; we shave, you shave (and not just your face). (Huh, did they not read 6? Just like a women, don't know what the hell they are talking about)
12. Foreplay is not an option . . . its a prerequisite. (exactly, come over here and lick on my stick. Oh wait, a girl wrote this, she probably means we should lavish the female with affection and attention, while the girl just lays down and takes it. Women are always hypocrites in this area)
13. We're allowed to be late . . . you are not. (Hypocrites again)
14. Eye contact is key.
15. Don't take longer to get ready than we do.
16. Laugh at our jokes.
17. Three words . . . honesty, honesty, honesty.
18. Girls can be groupies. Guy groupies are stalkers. (Hypocrites again)
19. We never have to wonder if your orgasm was real.
20. Do not start with us. You will not win... not kidding .. we ALWAYS win
21. Would you like it if a guy treated your sister that way? We didn't think so.
22. If you ask nicely, we usually answer the same way.
23. We will never have enough clothes or shoes!
24. We have an excuse to act bitchy at least once a month.
25. Open the door for us no matter where we are . . . even at our house and getting into the car.
26. We love surprises! (That is what number 10 is for)
27. We liked to be kissed softly, not with an iron tongue.
28.Pay attention to the little things we do, because they mean the most.
29. Boxers and maybe boxer briefs sometiems . . . NEVER whitey-tighties, NEVER!
30. Clean your room before we come over. (If you want my room clean, clean it after you come over, it is probably why I invited you)31. Always brush your teeth before you see us . . . a fresh mouth and white teeth are a necessity.
32. When we use our teeth it means that you suck at going down on us, so we are just returning the favor. (All girls assume they give good Bjs. They are so wrong)
33. Even though you are sometimes insensitive and hurt us, we still love you with everything we are.
34. Hit it and quit it, because later I'll be with you're best friend and he lasts for hours.
35. Don't act hard around your friends because I won't make you hard tonight.
36. Sometimes "NO!" really means "NO!"
37. "Wife Beaters" are not an adequate form of fashion.
38. If we wanted to be on video tape, we'd be a porn star not your girlfriend.
39. Sensitive guys are great . . . but crying more than we do in a movie just isn't right.
40. Don't let ex-girlfriends cause drama, relationships are stressful enough.
41. It takes a special kind of stupid to forget birthdays.
42. Guys who are good cuddlers = guys who know how to satisfy a woman. (Dumb)
43. "Fat Chicks" have feelings too.
44. Silent SPAM, shoulder shrugs, tears, yelling and nasty looks all add up to . . . YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG!
45. If you are not a good dancer, please be self-aware.
46. Just because a girl doesn't pick up on the first ring doesn't mean she's not waiting by the phone.
47. You don't have to spend a lot, if it means a lot.
48. Don't say you love me if you don't mean it.
49. Don't lie to us . . . we will catch you.
50. When the girls get together, we talk about EVERYTHING. Meaning my best friends know everything about you.

_________________
Recommended reading list.

Double Your Dating by DD
(This will work on your inner game)

http://www.freewebs.com/xfman/
(This will work on your outer game)

huh? WTF is this? and why did I whaste time typing a response or even reading a bit of it @ post #1 half of it is so obvious that my Overly AFC brother couldve writen it and the other half is just plain not true.

You're right - some of the stuff in the article could be seen as AFC behaviour - but I think it gives an ok insight into how females view men in relationships.

I think some of this is useful, and she makes some decent points about her problems with choosing men in the past.

Can anyone say, 'misery likes company'? How about having a 'congruent' inner and outer game?

I would suspect this woman looks quite good. And that's probably a large part of her problem in a nutshell. And any guy that would marry this chick needs his head examined, and she knows it.

_________________
http://youtube.com/watch?v=4ufa-q7DcWM

Hi

I quite liked that post and there are some good points in there.

What I think is important is learning how to ask the right questions and how to calibrate people. These is an NLP things and are quite easy to learn.

If you know how to ask questions properly, then it can prevent arguments. If you can calibrate, then you actually know what she means when she is talking to you.

A good example is when she is mad at you for something. Say you want to go out with your friends and she goes cold on you, ask her the following.

"You seem to me a bit down about me going out, can I ask you how it makes you feel when I go out with my friends? (or whatever the issues is).

She will then respond with some reasons such as "when you are out with them I miss you or it is like you don't care about me". You already have some good info, but you can take it deeper.

YOU "And when you miss me etc, how does that make you feel?"

Her "Well I feel lonely and uncared for etc etc"

You then basically take what she has given you and reverse it, thus squashing her hesitation. You can also set an anchor here.

YOU "well you know that I like/love you and whenever we are together we have such a great time" (go into state and as you are going this touch her shoulder or something).

I would then ask something like "when we are together having a great time, where do you feel it the most?"

HER: In my stomach I feel warm and secure etc. When she is talking keep setting that anchor on her should (or where ever you want but keep stacking in the same place).

YOU: W"hen I get back from seeing my friends (NLP presup) I want to spend some time you, so we can feel really close, warm (whatever she said before and again keep stacking that anchor). "Because when I am away from you I love coming back again to see you.

She will be going into a trance now with all these lovely feeling.

YOU: So you see me seeing my friends is a good thing isn't it (fire on the anchor on her should), because it means when I get back we can spend some quality time together etc.


Basically this is collapsing a negative anchor. Build a state of something really posative, and then when you talk about the negative thing, fire off the anchor. This replaces the old negative emotion with a nice one instead. You also get to know more about her so less arguments.

Hope this helps

Matt

_________________
London based hypnotherapist. I can help you with gaining confidence with women and social situations. Get in contact for more information.

For an interview chat with one of my clients click www.realworldhypnotherapy.com

#1 always helps for getting laid by the gf...

another recipe to make an AFC through feminine relationship advice

I just realized recipe for an AFC rhymes lol

Honestly, that list is absolutely retarded. There is nothing helpful here, like someone above me said, it is very very bias, and extremely un-intelligent. Some company no-body probably wrote this up while she was crying about all the guys who refuse to conform to this crappy list.

_________________
Amor est Vitae Essentia

this is bullshit (ITS WHAT WOMEN WANT YOU TO BE LIKE BUT THEY WONT FUCK YOU)

THE REAL LIST>

1) Tell a girl to shut up when she does your head in.
2) Never tell her shes pretty
3) forget her birthdays, anniverssries, give her lame christmas presents
4) ignore her unless she is having sex with you
5) let your AFC mates tell her how she shouldn't be with you
6) her best mate will tell her your a jerk, so fuck her aswell as its funny
7) make her only way to contact you is through your AFC mate
tel her another girl likes you, she wil want to make the girl jealous
9) "treat her like shit" (ie. dont treat her like an angel)
10) take the piss out of her

SimCity, I think your list is just as incorrect and useless as the original. Women should be treated with respect, and the only women who will put up with the kind of SPAM on your list are women of a lower intelligence who can't do any better.

_________________
Amor est Vitae Essentia