| Hey guys
I have read most of the October man sequence and I have tried parts of it out too. In Jeffries new model of speed seduction he uses signal recognition, which is very close to October man and I have used it with great effect.
Here are the basic steps of SRT;
1. State elicitation
2. Amplification
3. Anchor it and turn it into a symbol
4. Fractionate
5. Make a filter
6. Stick part of it to you
State elicitation
There are many ways to elicit a state in someone, the best way is to ask a question, and where they get that feeling first. So what I do is say the following (please note that I also use embedded commands and self anchors in this to). You can also use quotes and/or other people experiences.
“I was talking to my friend Sara about how she knows when she really likes someone (self point), like maybe you can (sort of I/you shift) just be sitting there looking at that person (self point) and you begin to really listen intently (embedded command) and you can just know that you like this person (self point). Sara says that there is a feeling that she gets inside that lets her know, like maybe she can feel butterflies or get a tingling sensation. So if I were to ask you what is the first internal signal you get on the inside that lets you know that you are interested in someone (self point).
Amplification
As Ross says, naming something makes it real, describing it brings it to life. So this is where find out her sub modalities about the signal she gets. So lets say she goes for butterflies (very common), I then ask, “so how many butterflies are there in there?”, she will reply with a number (usually 10 for some reason), so I then ask “what if you were to feel 20?”. You then ask where that feeling moves, it is typically up into the chest and then the head. You will start to see the shift change in state, they may even blush a little. I then follow this with “not many people know this, but feeling have colours associated to them. So if you were to picture that colour clearly now, what could might that be?”.
Anchor and turn into symbol
So now we have a colour, I then get them to visualise that colour in them, going from their stomach and into their chest (or whatever way they described) and change the sub modalities i.e. make the colour more intense, make it warmer, remember to calibrate. Now this is when you want to be anchoring the state. So what you do is imagine you were holding something in your right palm, so turn it facing upwards. Have it about the height of the bottom of your ribs, so it is her peripheral vision. “Say take some of that colour and make it into a shape or symbol in my hand” and look at your hand when you do this.
Fractionate
Have them really visualise the symbol in your hand and raise your hand up so it is level with your should. This works like a sliding anchor already, as when you rise something it makes it more intense. This is what Ross does with the sugar packets with the waitress in The Game. Then say “now notice when I move it away (outstretch your arm behind you) that the feeling get less don’t they”. Not only are you utilising a sliding anchor, you are also getting ratification that it is working. Next you say “now notice that as I move it closer it gets bigger and stronger”. When you do this move it slowly and up towards their face. As you do this go into the state more yourself. Remember this is something you do with them, and not to them.
At this point you can put the symbol inside their chest and take it out again. You can keep doing the sliding anchor and moving it away and towards, each time make it get bigger and stronger and go into state more yourself. You can also get her to exhale and it gets larger, breath in and it gets smaller.
Make a filter
Now once you have finished playing about with the fractionation, put the symbol between you are her and make it large. Then say something along the lines of “see this isn’t was is really important, it is what is behind this that is important”. I then either lower my hand to reveal me, or I do a gesture of connection between me and her. This gets her seeing me through the eyes of attraction/lust/desire or whatever state you have elicited. I did this once with trust as the girl had a bad relationship with her dad and had an issue trusting men.
Stick part of it to you
Before I finish I always take some of the symbol and stick it onto my chest. This is basically anchoring this feeling to me. When I do it, I do it in her peripheral vision, basically under her chin.
Now I know this all sounds bollocks but it does work. The first time I did this on someone the girl nearly fell off the sofa when I moved the symbol away. I did this last week with a girl (the one with the trust issue) and because we were sat down it was too hard to make a filter, so I just played around with the energy instead. I took the symbol and stuck them to her glass (we were in a pub) and she watched that glass like a hawk. She looked and me and asked if she could take a sip (it was her own drink, but I had set the frame where I was in control and leading) and she went for it and drank down the good feeling.
All of this is clearly demonstrated in the Hyper responsive DVDs from Ross Jeffries. The more advanced stuff is the secrets of arousal DVDs. I believe that you can purchase all of these products from Chocolate Thunder. Contact him for details.
I hope this is of some help to you all and you go out there and try it. Remember I thought it was bollocks too until I started playing about with it. When you do it, be commanding and not all joking. Go into the states yourself, so it is something you both enjoy and experience.
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