Hey guys, i've been wondering for quite a while and i wanna hear your oppinion on this (this is not a pickup line ), do you have any ideea on how does a cheesy first message work on girls online?
Now cheesy may sound a bit innacurate, what i'm actually going twards with this is something like barney and marshall from "how i met your mother" did with stan on that episode where they would pretend they're the girl ted picked up and they would send some very touchy messages on the phone that stan would say to them.
I'm thinking the good part would be that you would definately get her to feel something (i know it made me feel something )which it would make it more likely to respond but bad part being that it would be very difficult to be congruent with that perosnna of a really smooth talker and poetic type of guy.
Let me know what you think/know. Thnx.

Well... im sure a lot of people on this forum have different views for the whole "cheesy" thing because most guys are into the C&F approach nowadays, but i think you could pull it off just make sure that she kinda knows your joking... Gambler once talked about being cheesy in a way, he said basically that if your gonna be cheesy then the more extreme you do it, the better that way she knows your joking. however gambler also said dont stick to being cheesy the whole time, he said that it would be good to say something that makes you sound like an extreme player that way it offsets the cheesiness and acts kind of like a push/pull. I forget exactly what these two techniques are called but he talks about it in stealth attraction so check it out if you want. Hope i helped!

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Well, maybe "cheesy" is not the best term, maybe "touchy"would be more appropriate.
Any other thoughts?

Cheesyness is alright as long as she knows you're kidding! For gods sake, don't EVER be serious and cheesy at the same time. But if you're joking around and being cheesy that just gives her an excuse to laugh at you, and if you're welcoming that, which you should be, it can loosen the tension a lot. If you're doing it in person, do it with a big ass grin and maybe even an eyebrow raise or two, a wink, whatever. The chances she'll initiate kino right after are pretty high.

I see what you guys are saying.

i wouldnt reccomend being touchy i think i know what you mean and i dont think it would be good to use that unless your joking but if your trying to actually be serious and get real emotional with her then i would say no. save that stuff for when your in an LTR!

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