I, The Ridiculer (the name is a mistake, but who cares !) is new in seduction. And by new I mean a total amateur. I've never been in love with anyone until I was 21!! And tonight the only girl I loved in my life dumped me....She said I was not good looking enough and was also boring.

I'm a guy of 22 from Bangladesh and PUA is something that almost 99.99% people haven't heard about it yet(I think that's a plus point!). While I was reading "The Game"(I'm still reading, haven't finished it yet) and I started reading about Neill Strauss (I think it was called"meet the style"), I was quite astonished that Neil and I had quite a lot of things common(that tumbleweed counts as one! and shyness and being nervous may b two and three...etc!) Even though I'm physically quite distinguishable here(I'm 5'10'' and the average here is only 5'4''!!) but I think I lack the interest to make me look good with dress and other things. I thought being smart and honest with my good sense of humor and the capability to make other people laugh would be enough for me. But unfortunately it wasn't.

I have a lot of friends that are girl but the only problem is, they are actually not so interested sexually or romantically about me (I think that's the problem of being too honest and funny as they like me a lot but only as a friend!)

I was born in the year of snake and change is something that is in my blood. I like to change myself and I like to learn new things and I think I also have the courage to do that too!

So whats wrong with me!! After all this year I still ask myself the same question again and again. Is it my ugly look? My lack of expressing emotional depth? or being excessively open minded to express my feelings without following any tactics?

I don't know the answers....I simply don't know.

hey bro, i live in same country, where you live. i know, PUA is not much popular here. some people are pick up artist here (own way). they don't follow or barely even know about this thing.
someone should make it popular here. (its kinda be difficult, because our society is so much strict about some ^^^^^^. and some other things no bars, no strip club, no clubs for short income people (only some people can afford to go clubs).

anyway, we have some common things, i will let you know what are those.
but, i am here for willing to change myself. and i want to become a PUA here.

Hey man,

welcome in the game.

Good luck!

Galaxy

Hey Ridicular
I am not sure how it is in Bagladash but herein the USA like most places Status and Looks are what you need to get a dates, lacking both become a good salesman euphemism for lying.
Also learn to pick your battles...these girls that just want to be friends, sit down with them and find out why and if there is no chance of moving foward then move on.
If one of your girl friends says no to a date then ask if she knows a friend who is single if she says"no" then say I thought your were a friend.

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mikeh71

Hey guys thanks for all the advices

....And I'm already making progress! Right now I know what looks good on me. Now I just need to learn about several pattern so that I don't run out of ideas.

I'm going through styles annihilation method. I think that would be good start up material. I've read some NLPs of Ross Jeffries too. But that's too advanced stuff for me. I think I need to build confidence first.

And you t13 from Bangladesh! Is there any way I can contact with you? Coz all the openers here are in English! And I think we need to convert it into Bangla and reshape it according to our culture. I need at least someone to discuss about it. We can chat in facebook or SPAM if you want.

Thanks again guys

There is no bars, no clubs for us but who cares! we'll go in the streets then ! There are lots of places, may be not perfect but its still possible to perform there.

hey, sure you can contact with me through facebook. message me here you mail id in facebook i will add you.

i just start learning few days ago.
start from reading some book. "the game" and some others.
whats you progress.
if we share our experience here.(i know its little hard in english) we can get lot of advice from mPUA and PUA here. they can help more to understand.

so, whats your progress here?
what you did,as far you did? did you open any?

dude i am soo jealous of u. I was a natural in Bangladesh. Only a few months after I discovered the community, my family and I immigrated to the U.S. Pickup is really mainstream here and many people know about it.But good luck with running game in BD as very few people know about it there.

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Zardari

thank you bro, i am trying to gather all people who have interest about this game. Hope, we can start soon in Bangladesh soon.

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Being RK.

yes. contact me brother.

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Being RK.