Yesterday I had a girl over for a date. we went to the supermarket and bought some food and then I taught her how to make pizza. It was fun and relaxed and during the mixing of the dough we played around, putting dough on each other. Anyway we finished in bed together. I think it was good BUT she suggested it.

I have been working on a HB 9.5 and want to ask her out for a date this weekend but I feel that maybe inviting her to my place might scare her. How should I go about it or should I think of something else?

Thanks in advance for advice.

Congrats on your recent successes! Of course your goal is to bring her to YOUR place but saying "my place" is going to immediately make her think you want to sleep with her (which you do, duh) so starting elsewhere and then somehow sidetracking during the night and stopping by your place is the best way to go. Go get drinks. And say hey do you want some chocolate dessert? Ok let's go get some. (or some variance of that) just make sure you have more than a chocolate condom for her for dessert! Lol. Good luck!

Thanks for your response.
That is how I would roll normally, but this is a slightly different tactic. The normal date then home thing has it´s disadvantages in that as soon as you suggest your house after a date it means one thing really.

This new tactic is to have her come to here first in order to have her feel comfortable in my place.

We work in the same office space so we see each other a lot and we feel quite comfortable so I asked her to my place the other day to make pizza and she accepted without the enthusiasm I was hoping for, but then as I was leaving she got all dissapointed.

So today I mentioned to her that I have a pool in my building and she got really excited and said ¨You have to invite me some time. I would love that.¨ So naturally I did and she might be coming on Saturday.

So now the situation has changed. Its now a date by the pool which is quite public but also good because we can nip in and out of the apartment and later I can suggest we cook something. Im also hoping there will be some sunscreen application. Also other girls by the pool.
It will be a challenge to keep it exciting though. She said she doesnt like to swim, just sunbath.