What up guys! So Saturday while doing some day game with my wingman. I got tired of getting the "IHABF" speech and decided to try something different.

The post is pretty long so I've posted it on my own blog.

If you get this speech sometimes during day or night game check out this post. Good stuff. Leave comments and feeback guys!

https://sites.google.com/site/theattrac ... eabfspeech

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Don't you hate it when all the good ones are taken? I generally don't waste my time and energy on those who have (or claim to have) a boyfriend. It's like a minefield out there...

But after reading your blog entry, allow me to make an alternate suggestion. This may come as a shock, but sometimes women will *gasp* lie about having a boyfriend. This is one of those annoying side effects of direct game (day or night).

First off, it's generally not a good idea to call girls "hot." Don't ask me why, it's one of those weird chick things. There's nothing wrong with boldly calling her "cute" or "beautiful" if you know what you're doing, but girls never go for "hot."
Secondly, you are coming on very strong in your game. She may panic and throw up a defense mechanism ("ummm I have a bf") and/or give you a fake number, or any other number of chick BS things. Building rapport first can reduce this.
I am simply critiquing your game, not recommending changes (except for not calling a girl "hot" to her face). Each style has its benefits and drawbacks, you just have to recognize what they are and why they happen.[/u]

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Cool, now waiting for your fallow up with the lay report and then i might try and use ur stuff cause mine's working pretty well SPAM tbh

I always eject after the IHABF line. There's no time to waste with a girl if she uses a boyfriend as an excuse. If there's attraction, she won't bring up her boyfriend.

I would like you to prove me wrong and fuck her, but IMO, you friendzoned yourself and non-sexualized this interaction. However, from a purely goal related perspective, you got the # close. Respect.

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I'll post a message from the moral angle here. If a woman gives you the "IHABF-speech", my first order of business would be to find out whether she actually has a BF. If I conclude that she doesn't, then I wouldn't mind continuing. If she does have a BF, I would eject just based on the fact that I don't want or need to hurt other guys by stealing their girls. Also, I figure that a woman who cheats on her BF with me might be the type to cheat on me down the road, should we go exclusive. I have some experience with taken women from when I was younger. The fact that someone can take a girl from another man does not mean that he has to.

Am I making any sense?