| arbitrary negs won't get you laid, they will get you blown out,
escalation gets you laid, negs get you attention from people that normally wouldn't give you attention, and you can't escalate to sex if the girl is not giving any level of compliance at all (and if you can't get her attention, obviously there is 0 compliance)
you neg to get people reacting to you, so you can re-frame once you have their attention, if you are using the mystery method, you neg to disqualify yourself as a potential suitor so you can dhv yourself before you start hitting on the girl, the neg does not create the social attraction, it just gets the attention so you can build the attraction with the dhv's (do this through story telling and making the stories interesting, rather then qualifying yourself), when a girl is not reacting to you, you neg so she starts reacting (if a girl is not paying attention to your stories, you show active disinterest in her as a partner, so she gets insecure and seeks approval aka pays attention again), either by qualifying herself out of insecurity, or becomming agressive and negative, either way attention is attention and as long as you don't react emotionally and stay positive and playful you can re-frame the interaction into a positive thing and you will have the attention, rather then get ignored and blown out by a girl with the attention span of a goldfish
also if a girl is just straight up not attracted to you in the slightest, she will just stop talking to you, and give you serious signs of dis-interest (not responding, one word answers, ignoring you, pretending like you are not talking to her)
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