Hi, guys.

I asked this HB10 over facebook if she wanted to come swim with me some day this week, she replied:

"Hi there! No, I work evenings this week, but may be able to swim before the job if it is nice sometime this week "

How do I answer w/o beeing to needy?

Also, I've negged her once so far (irl at a party this past weekend).
Not that it matters.
Just wanted to throw that out, too.

Not bad.
I'll wait for more advice still, though.

Honestly, the "Can't wait to see you get wet" might come off as overly sexual because you will lack body language when talking / writing online.
And because you don't come off as an super confident / sexual guy, I am not sure this will work for you.

I would try and escalate / change conversation to some kind of role playing if you haven't already.
Role playing when done properly will be one of your strongest tools while gaming online.

"Alright deal! This way I can see if you can swim properly before we decide to buy a second house with pool. : ) "

Remember that this might not be your style, because I truly don't think you pushed things in a roleplaying way with this girl, but try to remember that future projection and roleplaying are really powerful.

Game on!

~Phate

I would give her a slight cocky neg, and then brag about your pool being awesome with a picture of an inflatable pool attached!

"I bet my cannonball can whip your cannonballs ass!" if you get her playing along I would work "You better not go down on me!!!" then about 30 seconds later send "OMG!!! Drown, not Down...Hahahahaha!". This will add a sexual overtone to the convo, however, it was an honest "autocorrect" mistake!

DO NOT Apologize for making the (fake) mistake though!


Peace...

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