it sounds as if you have what is known as delayed ejaculation, this can be difficult to treat -

Tell her to hit the prostate!

Does it for me every time:)

hey all.
i once was fucking this chick, and i felt i could have blown in like the first 5 mins, but i withheld. i eventually came like 45 mins later lol. but i felt like an idiot cause when i was feeling it in the first 5 mins, i told her, then it took me ages to do it haha. but yeah. its all got to do with feel. what makes me blow quickest is when going missionary, the only thing touching me to her is my pen in her vag. it feels awesome. but yeah ive only fucked one chick during my 20 years of life. im sure ill get many in the future now.

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Self respect is far, far more important than a momentary sexual experience

I've fucked 3 different women since last Friday.

Blonde - came 2x in 2 hours.

redhead #1 - came 5x in 16 hours she was here (and we spent the night).

redhead #2 - came 3x in 2 and a 1/2 hours last night.


I jack my cock twice a day on days I'm not getting laid. I jacked it once yesterday, not expecting to fuck last night - so I blew 4 loads yesterday.

Stopping an orgasm is a huge DHV if you announce it first. "I'm loving this... your'e so fucking hot, but I don't want to cum too quick... I'm going to stop my orgasm." If you're into tantric breathing at all - you can simply stop it. If not, slow down, pull out, do something else... Learn finger techniques. Incorporate that with your palm on the outside pressing down where your fingers are inside of her and try to touch your palm WITH your fingers through her skin - if that makes sense. Add your tongue over her clit and continue... You're providing her HUGE sensation and giving your over-sensitive cock a respite.

Train your cock!!!

One of my favorite things is when I know I can cum - and I tell her... then I tell her "where do you want it baby?" And she decides. Last night, I told her "When you're ready for me to cum, just say so."... She was sitting on me, facing me as I sat on a chair. She frenzied her own pace, put her forehead against my own, looked me in the eyes and said "cum now cum now cum now".... As soon as I shot - she literally squealed....

Train your cock how you want it to fuck!


RR

(And for those that don't know - I'm 45, and never use the "little blue pills" or any other - it's all natural)

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

You must be shooting pure bull testosterone.

Twice in 2 hours and it's snore time for me:)

probably for the life of me this morning there was no way I could cum.. blowjob, handjob, ...
the only time I was getting closer was while pounding her pussy w/out condom, but of course I had to pull out.. at least, that keeps her well-sexed since I can go on for a while before getting tired.
I found out that sex on the floor helps the angle for both me and her, but today... no go..

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"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

RR

(And for those that don't know - I'm 45, and never use the "little blue pills" or any other - it's all natural)[/quote]

You must be taking those black and red capsules then. I have heard about them but have no more info.

I think they are called 'depth chargers' and keep a guy hard and shooting for hours at a time.

So... last night, I fucked blonde from last week. Came twice.

Today, I'm at Redhead #1's place after we went to lunch... and fucked her twice. I'm home now, the blonde is coming over tomorrow.

I'm seeing redhead #2 Sunday. I didn't really want to fuck today - but damn, her tiny body.... my cock demands to fuck her....but I'm sore and need a break. I don't plan on fucking tomorrow. The blonde is more reserved - so I shoud be able to swing that. I want to be on point for a serious day of dehydration Sunday...

.....and every bit of this shit is true. It boggles my mind on occasion - I guess I was just due to hit the jackpot recently... LOL ... I'm just riding the wave of success - and enjoying it while it lasts... Surf's up.


(And I don't take any pills... I drink water and sweet tea... and the occasional shot of moonshine. I smoke out on occasion as well - but never any pills... I just high five my cock. LOL.... )


RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

I want whatever you are taking. Perhaps it's the moonshine.

stop wacking it..that worked for me

I had the same problem man I know how frustrating that is. But I found a way to work this. First of all make sure you enjoy it. I know you need to be two peps to have sex. But you can be more demanding. She will not enjoy it if she feels that you dont. So do the stuff your into. Looking in the girls eyes before and during I finish make my orgasm much more intense. And if I have like a 30 min foreplay the sex gets more intense too. Tease yourself. I use to make her pussy dripping wet before I put it in, makes my penis go crazy. A lot of self boost too, makes me feel like the man. If I had a lot of drinks my stick goes numb. So if you know your up for some fun stick to beer and soft drinks. Another thing I notice is that if I dont have sex for a while my penis needs peeling. When you have sex reguarly with girls your dick gets this natuarly. Buy a pair of peeling glows and do your dick. Works great for me.

Good luck man!

It's called death grip-syndrome afaik, I've had it for a while as well, but after having a LOT of sex with my gf back then, it started getting better.

Some more info on it here:

http://curedeathgrip.com/index.html

Hope it helps!

this is something i have learnt naturally...
breathe through it and you last longer, i used to last 3 minutes if i was lucky... now 5 months later with the same girl i can go forever, and i mean literally forever, i can't come and i go soft, i mean whats wrong with me, the 5 minute wonder to this any pause in stimulation and it starts to go soft and and i lose any progress that had been made. i can breathe through the stimulation so i don't come but if i want to come i have to bury my head in her breasts and get her to suffocate me in order to stop me 'breathing through the pleasure'

i've tried everything to go back even if it was to half an hour i would be happy, but nothing will make me come, even masturbation takes a significant amount of time longer and again constant stimulation or i lose all progress and go soft.

i like anything to do with sex and watch any kind of porn, with this problem i have even tried gay porn to no avail i could even get it up

any ideas as to what i can try??

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LMAOOO well said. yeah, jacking off is a negative thing:
it can make you lose your libido and you wont approach women
it can make you bust a nut too quick
it can make you not bust one at all

and lets be honest who wants to ride an amusement park ride where you go all the way to the top but you never feel that all elusive drop...pleasure!

i have a similar problem. For me the girl has to be really verbally dirty during sex. I guess i am more of an intellectual fucker. Is that a term or is there one like it? I pretty much have to in a round about way interview the girl beforehand about how she likes sex. Sometimes all it takes is for me to talk crazy dirty to her and have her agree. Like "You are my dirty girl little girl". The more vocal she is the easier it is to cum.