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| DannyEd | PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 12:46 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:51 pm Posts: 3 Website: http://www.facebook.com/#!/daniel.edwards.338863 Location: England, Stoke-On-Trent | | Hey so i was thinking would this opinion based opener work or just come across as bragging?
"Hey i need a girl's opinion on something, what it is, is my mate's girl is texting me asking if i want to go round hers for sex, should i tell my friend what she's been texting me?
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| In$tinct | PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 12:57 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Apr 02, 2012 10:37 am Posts: 1043 Location: Hungary, Pécs | | Yes, altough I don't really use these types of openers this seems a good one to me. But remember that these types of openers have these purposes:
1) To not seem threathenning
2) To initiate the conversation.
(3, DHV... Yours also does it since it suggests that other women desire you)
It is hard to think of an opinion opener with common sense that won't do this job, and you have to make sure that you don't stick to this topic and switch threads as soon as possible to get things moving forward.
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| DannyEd | PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 1:05 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jun 15, 2012 5:51 pm Posts: 3 Website: http://www.facebook.com/#!/daniel.edwards.338863 Location: England, Stoke-On-Trent | | Ok, thanks for the advice Instinct i'm new to pick up, i'll try it on this i girl i fancy.
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| In$tinct | PostPosted: Fri Jul 13, 2012 1:55 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Mon Apr 02, 2012 10:37 am Posts: 1043 Location: Hungary, Pécs | | Good luck mate. There are several different approaches to pick-up and I suggest you experience with some of them to find out what suits you best. But beware, don't load your brain with tons of information before actually trying the basics out.
Go out one night and decide, today I'm going to try out this Mystery stuff. I have my openers, I have some routines, and I've just spotted that pretty girl so just before I become anxious I'm approaching her NOW.
Then go out another time(even daytime) and decide again: Today I'm going to be direct. There's a beautiful girl over there, I'm NOW going to approach her and tell her I find her gorgeous and want to get to know her.
Then after you're comfortable with both of these approaches you can say: Today's gonna be special. I feel content of myself so I'm just going to say whatever comes to my mind.
You can also dig yourself in NLP after you've experienced a lot with communicating with other people. Looking for subtle sings in their body language and spotting what they are doing unconciously during the interaction. Those patterns are really interesting and exciting to experiment with, and NLP also offers a lot in the field of self-improvement.
Though I have to repeat myself. I don't want you to commit the same error as many of us here have done. I spent like half a year only reading and reading and not actually doing something on the field. Then when I felt like: "This is it. I now know everything. I have it all. Mystery, RSD, Deangelo, Vin di carlo, Gunwitch, 60yoc, I'm bound to succeed. All the bitches will be mine", to my disappointment I didn't get any. In-field experience is extremely important and necessary no matter what style you prefer. Have fun!
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