hey everybody,

i have meeted with this girl that is 5 years older than me ( i am 18 years old) and we will go to the cinema's next weekend.

i have meeted the girl 2 times. the last time was today she took her friend with her and my friend came along too and we kinda just chill at burger king

i asked her to go to the movies and she said yes. but i need some Cinema routine or tips because the last 2 meets I was just like a rock and very non-interessting.

thanks for your help guys

Well, the cinema isn't really the place to take a girl on one of the first dates. However you can get some good normal conversation on before and after the movie (And during the break if there is one)

Secondly, because your already at comfort (I guess) You really don't want to be using routines with her anymore. I would suggest to learn how to ''Vibe'' It's how a normal conversation goes.

Ask a question or go on what she is saying talk a bit about it. and get a response. If she says something like. ''Me and my friend were at this bar yesterday, it was awesome! they had this cool mexican party going on with all these skulls hanging around... BlaBlaBla'' Here she gives you quite a few things to ''Vibe on''
-cool bars
-Her friend
-Friends
-Yesterday
-Mexico
-Mexican party
-Day of the dead, A mexican festival. (as that is what the skulls are for)

You choose one of these subjects and talk about it. Then she talks about something and you can again choose what you want to talk about from what she is saying and repeat this as long as you have time

thanks 3 hands.

well I am not at comfort yet. i make allot of mistakes like saying some very dumb things when she looks at me and thinks "WTF?" but thats because I am nervous.

when i talk i also do it differently then normal.

also one more question... we will go out like double dating right? shall we sit next to each other or shall I go with the girl to a few rows further?

she also makes me nervous because she is a damn HB8 lol

and i dont really know how to act with older ladies


PS!!!!!


Ik zag dat je uit nederland komt, kan je me meer tips geven hoe ik dit moet aanpakken aankomende weekend?

bedankt man