| I don't mean to disappoint you, but if you fail to communicate sexual interest, you're doing EVERYTHING wrong. The whole purpose of the seduction is ultimately sex, so you need to make it clear. It's not that simple that I just give you some lines and stuff, sexual tension is complex, and as high as it can get in a minute, it is just as fragile. I'm just gonna give you some basics about sexual tension for you to understand things better, and I hope I will help. But if you're so clueless maybe you should actually read some stuff up before going out. I barely ever suggest that, because nothing compares to in-field experience, but for this case it might be really helpful.
-Watch out for IOIs and IODs. If you reciprocate her IOIs and pull away to her IODs that will create sexual tension. This goes for verbal IOIs too but it is most effective in the body language.
-Tease her. Just don't give her what she wants. Let her more close and close but you don't give it till the very end.
-Talking about sexual topics always creates tension. (Escalate though... first just talk about first kiss, then go further to petting and eventually sex)
-Be bold. Don't be afraid to demonstrate your sexuality. Touch your belt when you're talking for example, this directs attention to your crotch.
-Escalate physically. With teasing and correct body language and verbal escalation, this works like a charm. You touch her shoulder when you're talking to her, you touch her back while you're talking about her first kiss, then you just push her away. She gives you a verbal IOI, you high five her, she pulls away after you turn your body or take a more relaxed stance. Then you touch her back again, and start talking about other sexual things. You will see her reactions. If it's positive just push further, in mere minutes you should already be like smelling her neck and talking about the dirty things you two will do later, if it's negative, you too pull away until enough tension is built up.
Note: This was just an example...things will almost NEVER go like this pattern I gave you, but I want you to see how these things work.
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