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I had this posted last night but here we go again. K I think this has to have happened to some of you so I could use some input plz. Right now the only venue I have to go sarging is the mall (small city). Quite often theres this particular girl that i find captivating. I dont wanna go into much detail, but this girl is fucking gorgeous - by my standards. Anyway I have tried number closing her twice now and both times she has given be bullshit exuses like, "i dont have a phone right now." So i laid off so as not to seem creepy or needy. So the other weekend I got a number close from another pretty girl, and i know this other HB im talkin about saw it. I felt pretty good about that cuz i shows that im attractive to other girls. Well anyway the last time i was at the mall she was sitting at a table and was giving me the eye for a good 5 seconds as i wlked by. It had to be an IOI. either shes fucking with me or shes genuinely interested. I think i can rebound this one. I know this sounds like "onitis" but that girl is so sexy to me. How the hell should i appraoch her without showing DLV? If you can help I appreciate it guys.
Yes. Social proof is powerful.
Do not attempt to number close her again. Two reasons: 1) You come off desperate asking 3 times when she clearly told you she doesn't have a phone. 2) She will be hesitant to give you a phone number all of a sudden, after telling you twice she does not have one.
Do this: Tell her you're going shopping at mall x at time y. Tell her she can feel free to join you at that location at that time. If she shows up (give her +5 mins) great, if not walk away.