So, im 16 and i recently been on a meet-up with this HOT desi girl (shes 35 but proper sexy!!!). The only thing is, i cant stop thinking of her, i seem to constantly checking my phone nd shit for her repsonces.

But also, i wanna be able to get her to chase me around, and i want her to start thinking of me rather than me tihnking of her.


So, how can i prevent emotional attachment, how cna i get the girl to chase me around and how can i get her to think of me???


(sidenote: i want to at some point, get a sleep-over/sleep in her bed at her palce, get to know her friends well)

Well, continue going out and picking up new chicks. Continue hanging around with friends. Continue with your hobbies. Keep yourself busy and try to understand she is not the only chick in the world. If you want to keep her chasing you, remember the old saying by David DeAngelo (I think?): "Remember to give her the gift of missing you".

However, if you want a serious relationship with her (16yo & 35yo? Sorry but i doubt it) after some time its not bad to get strongly attached to her emotionally.

Trust me if you're not acting needy towards her it is likely she will start chasing you. How to not act needy? Learn to have fun without her as well.

thanks you. is there a possible way to know if she is thinking about me, attracted blah blah... (she was giving some good body language when i did a meetup with her)

newspaper article in a few days:

35 year old hot woman chews up and eats soul of 16 year old boy

careful out there

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Well yeah, if she's contacting you/sends a lot smileys when you're talking then its a good sign Be aware of the mind games chicks play though - if you don't contact them for some time they can return the favor to see if you like them at all. Tricky games with the girls Just be outgoing, fun and confident and you'll be good

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