ok there's a girl i've known of for 3/4 months when i've been out in town (london), never really spoken but in the last month we've had a couple of small insignificant conversations. she's a hot brunette.

a few weeks ago me and some friends are out, and i'm being my usual charismatic self and making the guys laugh. later that night 2 of the boys say she was eyeing me up every 5 seconds. perhaps that counts as quite a few IOIs.

anyway, i've seen her out a couple of times since then but never approached her because she's always surrounded by the friendzoners and i probably can't get a word in. however, i realise this is going to be the case every time she is out so i'm going to dive in and get her away from the group.

now i have 3 options, contact her on facebook, a bar tomorrow or a party on friday. she actually added me on FB 3 days ago but i never spoke to her because i didn't want to give much away, last night just as i was about to make this thread she liked an old profile picture (suggests she was up late stalking my photos). we talk a bit but i don't want to seem to available so i tell her i'm going and ask for her phone number. she says she's lost her phone but is getting a new one in a few days and will message me her number. awesome.

anyway, i don't think i should talk on fb now because i'll see her tomorrow and on friday at the party. she's performing tomorrow at the bar but will be off stage with friends for a while. should i approach her then or at the party?

what should i say?

thanks

cliffs:
-girl i've seen around for a while shows IOIs
-stalks my facebook
-she's gonna give me her cell #
-should i approach her at the bar tomorrow or the party at the end of the week?
-what should i say?

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You keep it to the point, nothing more. You just shut up, because you don't really care. You have tons of hot girls in your life chasing you, and you want to take her out to give her a chance to prove herself to you. Get it?

just having that as an opener seems weird.

I like what MrMike79 wrote, you know she is kinda into you from the stalking.. And with this opener you show extreme boldness and confidence. You maybe shock her, but in my opinion that is a positive reaction. Sorry for my english, as it is not my native language.

dude, OPENING refers to talking to a girl you don't know and have never had any communication with (i.e. picking up a girl at a coffee shop).

You're PAST that, you say you've had conversations!!! What I think you mean is you've never really talked in the comfort building sense (I hope not in the let's talk like friends gooey fucked up sense)

Dude TALK to her and keep TALKING, isolate her (ask her to go with you outside cause your cell isn't getting a good signal and you have to send an important e-mail or something!).... Then ask her out solo like mrmike79 states and be prepared to respond to the "what are we gonna do" question, and say you like wrestling crocodiles and wanted to take her along or something....

TALK TO HER DUDE from the looks of it she's into you so it won't be hard (though IT should GET hard if everything goes well)

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Mekul, you are past the opener stage as the person above me says. You probably hafta be an heart-opener now

I found this quote to be a lie one. Girls usually say this, but maybe it's true in this case.

So let's be positive. Well, it's a good sign that she is stalking your old photos, now it's a time to move ahead. Ask her for a date but don't be over curious. Just talk what's only required yet show yourself as you are willing to talk to her if there is really anything to. Games should be won in a calm manner.

Did you ask her for a date yet?

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Seems pretty decent to me.

I have seen her out a couple of times since then but never approached her because she's always surrounded by the friendzoners and i probably can't get a word in. however, i realise this is going to be the case every time she is out so i'm going to dive in and get her away from the group.

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updates can be found in this thread:

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cliffs:
-first time we met up was at a bar gathering/party, she takes me home for a drink and we're under the sheets, she says we're not having sex, and like a retard i didn't try to make a move beyond kissing as i forgot all about ASD

-having thought i screwed it up that night i invited her out to a bar again, plenty of funny conversation, me making her and her friends laugh, we leave and kiss for hours but she says i can't come to hers (she previously mentioned she had to be on campus early the day after)

thoughts?