AFC2PUA - stopping relying on looks to get girls



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PostPosted: Fri Jul 06, 2012 3:52 pm 
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so im 20, not a total AFC, ive had GFs, a few SNLs, female friends & can talk to people & girls but not very well. id say my social skills (before now) are average at best. i think having decent looks, fit body and ok fashion sense have got me 6s & 7s, but nothing higher & it never lasts. i have a small handful of friends post-high school.

nevermind all that though, i just dumped a GF that was a dead end and made me feel like a chode. Im gonna immerse myself in PUA, some Neo shit here. 3+ days & nights per week. i dont really have a social circle so it will have to be mostly solo for now.

this will be my sarge journal. comment if you wish


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PostPosted: Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:00 pm 
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FR. post break up - baby sarge steps

hit some clubs with 2 female friends. they go to bathroom so i open a lone girl. 7 at best, i give her friendly negs bowt "beauty mole". she gives me some sweet IOIs, moves closer to me so were touching legs. (i feel kinda awkward bwt escalation)
i bail mid good convo (15mins in) to work the club & make her like me more?
but friends wanna leave so we do.

lesson learnt:
if good enough IOIs get number close b4 leaving 2 work the club,

dance a bit.

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 Post subject: Goals
PostPosted: Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:06 pm 
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1-Open sets, become better conversationalist.

3+ night & day game days per week. integrate opening into daily life.

2- number & kiss close, get a day 2

everything in time.


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 Post subject: FR - HB8
PostPosted: Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:14 pm 
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hit same clubs with same female friends.

-open 2 6s (at best) to warm up fails. dont care.
-open the nightclub photographer (7) & talk for 10 mins, get a few laughs. she tells me to look her up on FB (never found her on FB)
-open 2 set, 6 & 7. talk with the 7 for ages, get sweet IOIs, she laughs. then i realse my kino is crap so i over compensate. she freaks. her friend gets bored and pulls her away. she enjoyed it but it felt platonic. i tried to include friend but she gave me NOTHING at all.

lesson learnt:

KINO! escalate!


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 Post subject: FR - chode out
PostPosted: Fri Jul 06, 2012 4:19 pm 
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FR - solo chode out

wednesday night
decide to solo sarge (all my wings flake)
i see the queue at club, AA! i code out & go straight back home.
i thought up till now i didnt get AA at night game

lesson learnt
i went straight from my room to club, by myself. no warm up & got AA.
gotta do warm up sets along the day


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 09, 2012 12:03 am 
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so im 20, not a total AFC, ive had GFs, a few SNLs, female friends & can talk to people & girls but not very well. id say my social skills (before now) are average at best. i think having decent looks, fit body and ok fashion sense have got me 6s & 7s, but nothing higher & it never lasts. i have a small handful of friends post-high school.

nevermind all that though, i just dumped a GF that was a dead end and made me feel like a chode. Im gonna immerse myself in PUA, some Neo shit here. 3+ days & nights per week. i dont really have a social circle so it will have to be mostly solo for now.

this will be my sarge journal. comment if you wish
Just my opinion, but 'Neo shit' sounds like the Style 'I saw the matrix' shit from the book The Game. I don't really think those kind of pick up superpowers are actually attainable. Yes you can get better with practice but it's just something to bear in mind. Getting any girl you target every time just isn't going to happen unless you're a famous movie star, and even then there are no guarantees in terms of closing (I assume :D). Be prepared to play the numbers game a bit is my advice.

The other thing I would say is work at your social circle, don't just do solo approaching. Join some clubs, do other activities than cold approaching. Chill out in less forced social settings than you get when approaching new women. Try and meet up with some wings and have a laugh with them when you are out doing pick up.


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