I just created a kino escalation opening and I want feedback from people I tried it and got a number check this out. Go up to the stranger do a very direct opening
(Put your hands out as you introduce yourself)
You: Hi my name is xxxx
Her: Hey my name is xxxx
Interrupt the ending of her sentence (Look at her hands rub them and then look her straight in the eyes) and tell her she has very soft hands

I have only done this when we were walking together side by side you can do this if you guys are sitting next to each other or in class or even just standing not that hard to accomplish.
then continue with your conversation and in the middle of your conversation let your hand hang and move as it normally would touch the back of her hand with your hand and play with her fingers a little very subtly and if she continues to play you got your KC
If she doesn't play with your fingers then whenever you guys stop walking ask her out on a date or get her number she will want to talk to a guy who at least has the balls to try try out and let me know how it went

I doubt something like that is going to work on a HB8-10.

Direct approaches like that are only successful if you have a strong presence or some way to convey higher value. She does not know who you are or what you are like , you have nothing to offer her. Why would she even stop to speak to you?

You need to convey more value than her even before you approach her.

Be careful not to telegraph too much interest, you will scare her off and it lowers your value.

Turn you compliment into a neg.

But if you got a k-close like that you must be pretty good looking so well done friend.

- Happy gaming

- Energetica

hey thanks for the reply energetica you have a point there personally I think that I left out a whole lot of details but this can be adjusted to whatever method that is being used by the gamer. I also think that it doesnt have to be a direct opener you could do the hand holding kino as a neg or use a cocky-funny opening but i guess my method would require more of an experienced gamer rather than a new one thats just learning.

Do some peacocking , throw in some negs , use the right attitude and it might work.

You have to calibrate your interest with some disinterest as well. You can't just go ahead and compliment her too much.

But remember that hot women get approached like that every single day, it's not gonna be that easy.

At least you're trying , that's more than what most guys can say.

I use a similar format, though I don't do it exactly like that. I live in Georgia, USA and it is hot as balls throughout the summer, so when I open a girl outside, I always say something after the innitial opener along the lines of "It's hot as hell out here, let's go in the shade" while taking her hand and leading her to some nearby shaded spot.

I guess for me I always felt weird about just grabbing a girls hands and saying something about them. I know people can pull it off but I'm personally not comfortable with that at this time haha. I feel like with my way it is still a confident move, yet casual. But different things work for different people!

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@Energetica Thanks bro I really appreciate it man
@ERock Just my 2 cents in this, bro I think you feel uncomfortable because maybe in the beginning the conversation seems awkward try making her a little more comfortable then take her hand one thing that works for me is treat her as a guy rather than a girl if you do that you'll think of her as one of your buddies of course there is a limitation to what you can do or say but don't give treat her too much like a girl. If you try that im sure it'll work for you

You're right, I just need to take that next step and start doing it. Maybe it doesn't work out at first but thats the kind of thing you learn from, right.

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I have only done this when we were walking together side by side you can do this if you guys are sitting next to each other or in class or even just standing not that hard to accomplish.

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@thomasmaarteen how did it work out for you bro?