Hi everyone,


This is my first post on the forum. I've been reading a lot of stuff lately (i really want to improve this time) but i find it very hard to actually play the game in the field. I've been watching Style's videos and taking notes about them, but it is just kinda hard to master everything... if you see the techniques and routines on the forum or in books or videos it all seems so logical.
However, it doesn't seem so logical or clear to me in the field at that moment.
But i guess here practice makes perfect? And that practice is needed to turn it into a routine?


Nevertheless I still have another sticking point that keeps me back:
I can't say that I'm not a social person, I have no problem with just talking to people (even to quite pretty girls). Nevertheless i stil have a lack of self-esteem, which still makes me quite nervous talking to those people...
[by being at this forum, I think some might know the fenomenon that you just get nervous which makes you think of the nervousness and thereby thinking less about usefull things to say and making the interaction boring or awkward]
I know it is quite irrational to be that nervous, since i can be a really open and social person.
It is also not that i have fysical complexes, I'm an average-good looking guy, but it is just the fact that i can be really insecure.. I just often seem to worry what people say or think about me.



This might be linked to a second sticking point. The fact that my friends are real naturals!!! this also kinda screws up my game... a looot of my friends are just very social, very communicative and good at talking with people. They are also not always hitting right away on the girls, they just want to party (which shows the girls that they arn't needed (which as you know is what they want)).
the problem is that it is very hard to be the cocky funny guy, when most of your friends are cocky funny. or being the interesting guy when all your friends are (more) interesting.



I hope you guys can help me a bit on this one, cause i have some trouble finding it out...


tnx a lot!!!!!

As a suggestion find something a hobby, sport, exercise, or activity that you can go do that is your own that you'd do well in. Gain confidence in yourself through that and your own experiences doing it.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

i was kinda hoping that gaming would be that one thing i was gonna do well in... guess i'll have to practice more...

After reading all of those book watch some innergame video on u tube, it will help ur game alot.
Don't focus on gaming when ur gaming a girl, pay attention to her bodylanguage n u will see if she's comfortable or not, get out of ur head when ur gaming and focus on having fun because gaming is suppose to be fun, she's not gonna have fun unless u have fun.
Watch u tube videos n look for teachers and find who ur much comfortable learning from/ works best at specefic area of game.
This guy helps me with my game and I'm improving much quicker.
Watch ur nature friends game girls and see what they do.
There 2 much to cover in a text but u remind me of me so inbox me and we can kinda learn together.
My teacher is amazing at gaming and he's presently tryna be a nature.

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