so i struggle a bit with back handed compliments. I'm a pretty analytical guy and can see how things work, so when i saw the Alphas snaggin the girls with insults, i figured hey i'll be a massive dick and get tons of puss. As most of you may expect, this did not fly to well with any girl. I realized a little more grace was needed, however i just cannot put my finger on the right fines. Can anyone give me some pointers and more specifically some specific examples of complimenting a girl without sounding like im qualifying.

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IceBergs

Are you insulting the girl or giving backhanded compliments? Give an example of a line you've been trying.

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"The bird sets itself on fire… and in the embers is an egg. In order to do great things, you've got to recreate yourself again ,and you can’t do that holding to a glory or a failure from yesterday. "

If you are trying to act as an asshole, they only might be comfortable if you know how to back up the negativity and turn it into something positive and interesting for them. Straightforward insults will only help score you a nice slap to the face.
Plus, you don't have to be insulting to act hard, but you don't want to be the nice guy either. What most alphas do is lead the conversation to make girls feel like they don't have control at all, girls want to be manipulative, but alphas don't allow them to have the control--this is what attracts women. I think it would be best to start slow, once you know how to keep a girl around, then spice things up.
Most aggressive openers are related to women's fashion, you can insult something she's wearing, but never her face or body like that, this will make them very self conscious and lose interest in you. And most aggressive mid-game plans are being brutal straightforward, like suggesting her you want her on your bed and stuff like that, but you have to be at a comfortable level and have an well around attitude, if you look like a psycho and act like one then it's never a good idea to be a dick.

you wanna use something called a 'Neg' its a really simple thing and theres a huge thread on them under the Tools and techniques>Routines.
thing is you want to use the approriate neg, some girls can only be pushed to far, try not to directly insult her because this wont go down very well, instead use a neg, have a look on the thread there are plenty, and example of one is *speaking to her friends* 'is she always like this?' hope i helped

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