So ive been dating this girl for about a month now and everything was going good. When we first met we agreed that we are both looking for some fun and with the whatever happens happens. We have had fun but this past weekend when we went to this club that had live singers, she wanted to get pics with the singers and then ditched me when her and her friend went to to vip and i couldnt get in. I asked her what is she doing and is she staying up there because im not gonna wait out here and she goes with a might and i pretty much left from there. next day she starts texting and asked why did leave so pissed off and when i responded with how i felt she asked for forgiveness apologized and apologized some more until after i gave up from ignoring her and just forgave her and now we are talking again. She starts tellin me about sexual plans for us to make up and i think i fell to a trap lol. Now she is giving shit about the day she made the sexual plans for and is going to a club tonight and asked if i wanna go. I dont want to get dissed again but i do want to still have sex with her and maybe i am thinking with the wrong head and should just not mess with fire. What do you guys this?
HOw should i play this

Ouch. That shit sucks when you get dissed by a girl you are fucking. That right there shows you how quick women are willing to ditch their man over somebody else with higher value. In your case, the singer's had higher value than you.

I'd treat her like a fuck buddy. I wouldn't invest many feelings into a broad like this, and I'd do my own thing to. Tell her have fun, but you got other plans. I would seriously game other bitches. If she doesn't like it, too fucking bad. Apparently you don't have rules set, or she wouldn't have ditched you to play groupie. So you don't have rules either when it comes to gaming other girls. That's just me though.

Don't act pissed off about that incident either, regardless if it did piss you off. (it would have pissed me off too) I'd treat her as if she was replaceable at any point. You are the prize her, not some two bit groupie wanna be. She's going to keep taking what you allow. The more you allow, the more she's going to take. Until she's lost all respect for you. Then she's onto another guy.

Merck,

dont direct all your romantic energies in her direction - you are the prize. Keep your options open and look elsewhere at the same time. Be busy socially as well.

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Don't let her walk all over you coz if she does she wont respect you. Don't put up with any more crap dude...but be diplomatic about it.

WoW that is very good advice thank you.
I think its a little too late because i did show her my emotions and I think I may have fucked it up now because im acting like everything is back to normal and im already asking her about hanging out the day she mentioned sexual stuff to make up on and prolly just didnt play it right.

it doesn't matter man you can recover. one thing that always gets girls hot nd heavy is voyeurism. Personally, I'd accuse her of wanting to go to the club with you to commit this act of debauchery right on the dance floor. and then add in something to get her to respond as well. You could even add in that you draw the line at 3somes with the band members

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ever since shes been trying to avoid. She keeps texting next day saying you shouldve came here this night and you shouldve came there that night but never actually calls. My mistake i think is ive responded and have pushed a bit too much for hanging out. Maybe things got cold after that incident but she still tries to keep in touch. How do i go on playing with her games?

You should tell her about the great time you had hanging out with some other people and doing something fun and tell her that you're glad she had fun by herself. This will make her realise that you don't need her around to have fun and that if she keeps leaving you alone, then you're gonna end up finding someone else that will enjoy having fun with you and then she's gonna be the one left by the side of the road while the fun bus leaves.

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I agree. She made you feel left out, return the favor.

i'm going to reply as if i haven't read the posts before mine, i think it's good that you left but i don't think you should have revealed so much later, if i was in that situation i would have immediately started sarging other girls in the place to show that i wasn't dependent on her, also don't let her offer sex out of sympathy, if i were you i wouldn't do anything with her under that circumstance, turn it around somehow and make her chase you

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Good advice guys. What to say to text messages like "you havent talked to me all day"
I made up an excuse and was gonna add "and like you called me at all either" but didnt add it. Mistake?

:Edit: she is asking me about this girl on myspace but she is talking to this other guy on myspace too. Should I answer and ask her about him too?

thanx and yes I have sarged other girls but i still talked to her not so much lately tho

i forgot to mention that although the band may have had higher value that night, it isn't impossible for you to eventually have just as much value as they did that night, you can't fall for her shit about having sex to make up for what happened that night though, which is hard, but chicks know that if they use something like that it's extremely effective, so you basically have to ignore that, perhaps be like "your so confident" or "what makes you think you can have me?, i'm so out of your league" even though in your head you're probably like "damn i wanna fuck this chick" haha, she did mention sex though so i would capitalize on that and bring it up again somehow in another way, maybe talk about some crazy night you had with another girl, but don't make the mistake of sounding cocky if you do this, and don't give to many details, this will force her to ask questions, all i can say about that is don't sound needy with your texts, do like the guy who posted above me, he mentioned talking about a great time you had when you weren't with her or something to that effect

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how should i answer the myspace question text?

what's going on with myspace and texting exactly? give us the situation and some examples, these are both things i've had good results in so i'll try my best to help you out

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she is asking about a girl that im talking to on myspace. But she is talking to a guy on myspace too and actually is arranging a date with him.
Im about to answer and should i ask who he is too or no?