I'm 20 I turn 21 in Aug
She is 21
(Background Story) I met this Asian girl in my summer class in my community college, I started a conversation with her after class about her hoodie which had her school name she goes to, (its a all art school college) and I go to a all art school so I saw a opening to talk to her about that. After that I told her I spoke some korean and of course she didn't believe in me, so I told her in korean (Do you want to get a drink with me) She start to laugh, n was impressed, we talk some more then we left to are other class.

2nd time we talk was like 3days later (She was out sick for 2 days) after class, we talk about are interested, and her other class she taking. Ok I walk with her to class since it was near my class, I ask her to get coffee after class next Monday or Tuesday she said yea, then I got her number. (I see my first mistake n not picking a certain day and asking her)
This is where I fuck up, Monday comes up n we didn't do coffee, Tueseday comes n we are talking, we sit down near are class room since she is trying to finish her HW for her next class but I didn't mention about coffee that whole time n we didn't have coffee after.

The a few days before are final week of school she told me she was going to Chicago to vist a friend (It's a female she told me...lol)....The final week of class we have finals, it was this past week, she didn't show up Monday, Tuesday , Weds. (In my head I realized she dosen't need to take the final since she has a A in the class and I thought to my self i'm not going to see this girl if I don't txt her)

I txted her on Weds a few hours after class was done her is are convo

Me: I'm take a wild guess that you were kept hostage in Chicago, since you haven't been making it to class these past few days...LoL

Her: (She responded less then 2mins) lol I couldn't wake up on tuesday! and today morning I got into a small car accident. There was so much to take care of..but I was able to make it to my next class. Lol

Me: (I may take a while to respond to a girl like a min or 3mins or 15mins or hour it depends but with her I was responding to her txt like 3 mins after she sent one or like 7 mins) Ahh...That's a horrible way to start off the morning...LoL
At least u weren't injured. How was Chicago, what crazy fun things did u do over there...LoL

Her: Yeaa. Loll chicago was amazingg. City was so beautifull! Didnt wna come back haha.

Me: I would had imagine it was...Too bad you took summer courses, you could had been there a little longer...LoL
Are u planing to go back any time this summer?

Her: No.. wish i could but have plans in nj so I have to stay. :/
Is taking our final mandatory?

Me: It's not mandatory but I really doubt u would have to take it...haha
At least you have NYC to chill at, how much of a difference is it from Chicago?

Her: Haha she said if I get my logs in then i don't need to take it..
Chicago has so many beautiful views.. so much cleaner and the city is taken care of really well everyday. Its a nice place to live in unlike nyc really.. lol

Me: Lmao...So she is making you drop off ur logs in the morning?
LoL, I admit to that nyc is a little dirty but I can argue that nyc has some nice places to live at, would say park slope with out creepy ppl ar the park at nightand hipster nation Williamsburg....haha

Her: Hahaa maybee. i just found chicago to be so clean.. less pollution in the air lol. But im sure there r nice places in ny also

Me: (I respond a hour since I was studying for my final) hey btw do you have a FB account

Her: Yeaa.
(Her FB account link)

That's how we ended are txt message on Wed
Next day on Thursday I see her at the library studying (This whole time I feel dead tired I pulled a all-nighter studying) We have a small conversion I told her I'm going to let her go so she can finish studying and I will see her later. (My game was so off after I left I relized that I wanted to talk to her about her profile pic on FB and how I never expected a pic she has up looks so sexy posing like she wants it... (In person she a cute innocent girl and plus she is religious).

I haven't talk to her since then. I know she is taking a summer II, it started today. I want to meet up with her n take her out, what's the best way how to do this. I was thinking about sending her a txt tmr if she received the grades from are professor and that I'm passing by the school thursday to pick up a paper to transfer my credits. We can meet up after class.

Can i get your opinion my dudes...I really like this girl.

One of my teachers back in high school used to put up the letters K-I-S-S on the board everyday before class. I think this was an industrial tech or telecommunications course, don't remember, and it's not really important here. K-I-S-S of course stood for Keep It Simple, Stupid. And that's my advice for you. I see nothing to indicate that she isn't interested in you. In fact she even agreed to a date with you, in principle. But as you say, you never ACTUALLY set a date, so one never happened. Optimally, you call her today and talk to her for a couple minutes then set an actual date. Calling is better than texting, but it's not the end of the world if you don't. That's really all there is to it. Personally, I prefer the wording to be something like "...take you out for coffee Thursday..." over something like "...meet for coffee Thursday..." or "...let's get coffee Thursday...". The key words being "take you out". There's a lot of this pua shit I can't jive with, but you DO have to establish that you aren't just class buddies a.k.a. friends, so when you set the date, don't say it like you would say it to a friend ( "let's get", or "meet for"). If she says no, so the hell what? There's like 8 million asian chicks living in America other than her. If she's single, she won't say no though, trust me.

Oh, and have a second time that works for you to offer her for a date. So if she says she's busy on Thursday at 7pm (or whenever), you can offer the second one. And if she's busy for the second time, ask her when she CAN go out. The ball is in her court then. If she starts naming times.... great, pick one. If she says she'll let you know, that probably means she's too shy to say no, but who knows...maybe. Ball is still in her court though.

Calling is better than texting, but it's not the end of the world if you don't. That's really all there is to it. Personally, I prefer the wording to be something like "...take you out for coffee Thursday..." over something like "...meet for coffee Thursday..." or "...let's get coffee Thursday...". The key words being "take you out". There's a lot of this pua shit I can't jive with, but you DO have to establish that you aren't just class buddies a.k.a. friends, so when you set the date, don't say it like you would say it to a friend ( "let's get", or "meet for"). If she says no, so the hell what? There's like 8 million asian chicks living in America other than her. If she's single, she won't say no though, trust me.[/quote]

Thx for the advice diego_armando.
I will be giving a update soon.