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PostPosted: Fri Jun 29, 2012 4:30 am 
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Ok, so I'm a newbie still. I recently got out of a 4 year relationship so I don't know too many females at the moment. These are currently three girls I have in my sights right now but I need help with all of them...

Girl 1: A girl I dated 10 years ago for only a few months, we were young and we've remained friends. We lost contact when we both had pretty serious relationships. She lives in another city but is coming into town for the weekend. I've been running some facebook game and she seems quite interested in me, telling me we better get together this weekend. I need to convey that I want this to be more than just a casual catching up experience. We will most likely end up at a bar with other friends. Are there any lines I can use? Should I just try a lot of kino when we get together?

Girl 2: A girl that cut my hair last week at a salon. She was very cute and I definitely made a good impression(should have tried to N-close right there but failed to attempt) She gave me her card with her hours on it without me even asking so i think she wants me to come back. I'm thinking I'll just wait til i need another haircut, have her cut it again, make her laugh, then go for the number? I don't even know if she's single but I've heard to assume single unless given a reason not to. Any good ideas for N-close? I'm thinking just be cool and ask if she wants to hang out sometime? Should I go in and talk to her before I need a haircut?(will be probably a month before I need one)

Girl 3: A girl that I work with. She is very young but amazingly hot. I could be viewed by some as a creeper for this one but I have no shame in my game. She's 18, I'm 28. So I've been using a lot of kino tactics when working with her and I'm starting to feel a slight attraction from her. Obviously we don't have a ton in common because of the age gap. I can't meet up with her at a bar, I'd rather not take her to dinner or anything. I don't really know a good spot to hang out with her outside of work. Not sure where to go from here.

Thanks for reading and any help is much appreciated!


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 01, 2012 11:51 am 
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Girl 1: she seems like she might still have something going for you, i mean you was in a relationship ages ago... so you never know. I think you should keep running the fb game and then when you meet up develop some rapport, i think it will be easier as you know each other, then add a bit of kino, maybe a odd routine and some lines and invite her back to yours as its the least you can do, maybe you could say its too loud in here i have some drink at home etc

Girl 2: this one seems promising, you could go with a cocky funny approach with her to make the attraction more stronger, perhaps ask her what hours she does outside of work as you need some other hair trimming LOL. go back and see her definatley, get a n close.

Girl 3:one of the things ive always wanted to do is sleep with a older woman, considerably older, and when im older sleep with a younger girl, you wont be a creeper. it might be hard buidling rapport with her due to the age gap so you could try and go with some other routes, such as comfort building, then some negs and stories about your workplace and you could be in, the only thing i would be wary of is how you and her will be AFTER anything has happened.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 8:44 pm 
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Thanks Number 7! I'm going to take your advice about Girl 2 and head back to the salon soon. I probably won't use the "other hair trimming" line although it is very funny. My buddy gave me a good idea to go back and tell her in a joking manor that she missed a spot, or screwed up my side burn or something. Then eventually tell her the real reason I came back was for the number and everything. What do ya think?


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 02, 2012 9:11 pm 
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I myself am pretty new to the Game but from what I do know I'd keep up the kino escalation and maybe if youre getting a few good signs go for a K-close. Richard la Ruina(aka gambler) has a new book that has some pretty good indicators of when she's ready for it and I haven't personally read The Game but in sure something is in there about it

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 03, 2012 9:00 pm 
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no problem, your welcome :) yeah the trimming was a joke hahahahaha, yeah that sounds like a really good idea and you could use that as a cocky funny thing with her, and use it to spark the conversation up again.

As for girl number 2 i would probably watch out for the ioi's and then slowly make some progress, keep pushing the barriers and build the kino escalation, more hugs etc, urm pretend she has something on her, for example have some lint on hand, and then say oh you have something on your shirt/tee/jacket etc and then pull it off, this is a good way to break the barrier (credit to mystery) and if she dosent respond positvley to the kino escalation, take a step back, in the words of style 'wash, rinse, repeat' just keep building it up, you should have pretty good rapport after 3 days with her, good luck and keep me updated!

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Thanks Number 7, So yesterday I never received a text from her about the bbq, Before I left the 2nd day she definitely invited me over for the next night bbq and I'm pretty sure i said ok text me tomorrow. Text never came. At the pool i had told her that Wednesday being a holiday I would be going out Tuesday night(tonight) I don't know where to go from here really. I'm clueless about how she feels about me. Maybe if I list some of the IOIs she's giving me you can help decipher if they are really IOIs and how strong they are.

-On facebook told me "we definitely should get together this week"

-At the bar teased/negged her so she threw her lemon from her drink at me in a joking manor

-At the bar when I went to get a drink she said "I'll come with you" and didn't even want a drink for herself.

-At the pool
Me: I never put sunscreen on evenly
Her: Use your friends method(which was have a hot girl do it for you)
Me: That's where you come in
Her: Yea duh

-Has invited me over twice since the first night we got together this week




Thanks for any input!


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Thanks Number 7, So yesterday I never received a text from her about the bbq, Before I left the 2nd day she definitely invited me over for the next night bbq and I'm pretty sure i said ok text me tomorrow. Text never came. At the pool i had told her that Wednesday being a holiday I would be going out Tuesday night(tonight) I don't know where to go from here really. I'm clueless about how she feels about me. Maybe if I list some of the IOIs she's giving me you can help decipher if they are really IOIs and how strong they are.

-On facebook told me "we definitely should get together this week"

-At the bar teased/negged her so she threw her lemon from her drink at me in a joking manor

-At the bar when I went to get a drink she said "I'll come with you" and didn't even want a drink for herself.

-At the pool
Me: I never put sunscreen on evenly
Her: Use your friends method(which was have a hot girl do it for you)
Me: That's where you come in
Her: Yea duh

-Has invited me over twice since the first night we got together this week




Thanks for any input!


Well id say a few are ioi's and the rest could be genuine, for example the first one, she could be geuniley happy to meet you, so lets ignore that one, she hasnt ran any shit tests on you, personally i think you should push her, she seems like shes ready, wow this woman sounds like such a tease haha, the sunscreen one was a DEFINATE ioi, you are using a nice method of attraction with the teasing, okay so me personally, i would probably go with some warm and fuzzy attraction, show how autentic you are and perhaps tell some storys, use good body language and posture to reinforce you are the alpha male, and be the protector of loved ones, im guessing she will like that as youve been around her family a lot so she could sypmathize on that, mostly build that kino, you can do this!

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So last night I texted her while out at the bar "come meet me out" she replies 20 minutes later asking where I was, I tell her and then another 20 minutes goes by and she texts me saying "im playing wii" So about an hour later I text her again(probably a bad move) saying "you cant still be playing, come meet me now" No response the rest of the night. I get a text this morning saying "im not proud of this but we were playing wii til 3am" I replied with "wow thats hardcore" and that's where I stand now. Don't know what my next move should be. I want to hang with this girl as much as possible since she's going back to Virginia in 4 days. How do I get her to come out without sounding needy? I may have blown it by not escalating enough the first two days. I'm ready to up my kino and see where I stand, just need to somehow hang with her again, I need a plan for this weekend


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So last night I texted her while out at the bar "come meet me out" she replies 20 minutes later asking where I was, I tell her and then another 20 minutes goes by and she texts me saying "im playing wii" So about an hour later I text her again(probably a bad move) saying "you cant still be playing, come meet me now" No response the rest of the night. I get a text this morning saying "im not proud of this but we were playing wii til 3am" I replied with "wow thats hardcore" and that's where I stand now. Don't know what my next move should be. I want to hang with this girl as much as possible since she's going back to Virginia in 4 days. How do I get her to come out without sounding needy? I may have blown it by not escalating enough the first two days. I'm ready to up my kino and see where I stand, just need to somehow hang with her again, I need a plan for this weekend


Flake? and ohh not a smooth move haha, i probably would have said something like 'Dedicated to the game! I ran into some old friends at the bar and it was a right laugh' because you just make it out like youre fine anyway regardless of her hahahaha, its worked with me and girls seem to chase me, hmmmm okay, so ive almost finished the book 'The game' by neil strauss aka Style, this one girl in there stands out to him and all that, and she surprises him when he least expects it. Id try and surprise her but make it casual, take her out for some coffee, first of all this will stimulate the amount of dopamine in the brain and help to create some energy, and then perhaps move to another place, get some food, keep talking, go the the cinema as i call it, or movies in america haha, and bounce from place to place, this in effect will add some time distortion and make it feel like you have been out for a long time, i think i learned that from mystery so all props to him, thats some rough advice you could use, but don't seem too needy, avoid 'CAN we go here' and be direct, 'Lets go grab a coffee over there across the street' etc, good luck with this girl, your going to need to close the deal soon

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