Hi guys, my first post here and I'm looking forward to learn... a lot!
So my last week was dedicated to reading all the material I could get my hands on, I read "The Game", "Mystery Method", "What every Body is saying", "Double your dating", "60 years of challenge his method" and "the six pillars of self-esteem".
So I felt I had already enlarged my skill set but I still needed to apply it.
So on friday I had a party of the girl I was fooling around with for some time but always when tension started building I was too afraid to take any risks because I was afraid of fucking it up.
The party started and I started a conversation with her sister with the purpose of getting her jealous. This was working particularly well as she became dropping along the whole time asking what I was up to, which I used to neg her by asking if she could just leave 2 persons alone having a conversation.
However my conversation with her sister was going really well and I used it as an opportunity to test a few routines I had learned. I used a variant of the cube on her, and another NLP routine. She was really amazed and wanted to take pictures with me the whole time/didn't want me to leave. Kino was also going well, but here sister started cockblocking me sitting along us.
Eventually the sister went to bed and I was left alone with my initial target, I ran the same routines on her as on her sister and she was amazed as well. However as soon as my routines ended I didn't really know how to escalate any further, I was playing with her hand but this didn't really lead into anything. So I told her I had to go (it was already something like 4pm) and after a hug that was it.
So now I'm stuck with 2 things:
-first of all how could I have escalated further with the girl, she was really jealous of her sister and came by the whole time, I was expressing higher value to her and I felt it was on, however I just couldn't escalate any further.
-Secondly I want to look if there are any possibilities with her sister, she added me on facebook yesterday and when I left she told me she really wanted me to lay taroth cards for her sometime. Anyone has a good follow-up for facebook?

Thanks in advance guys!

P.S. If this is in the wrong part of the forum, I'm sorry I didn't really know where to place it.

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I'm thinking of sending this to her sister:
Hi!
Did you make your exam? (she had one the other day)
About the Taroth cards, I'm leaving this thursday on vacation, but I might have some time wednesday.
Let me know if you can make it.
X

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I sometimes think "routines" kill a man's game. It sounds like you were in attraction for TOO long and not escalating physically or verbally.

A "routine" I HIGHLY promote is ESCALATION. If you weren't touching, making sexual references, suggesting how much she wants you, how much you hate her for turning you on, then I don't think she see's you as a potential sexual partner.

So the text you're thinking of sending her may confirm that you're NOT a potential fukd buddy. Why? There's nothing sexual, there's really nothing but a couple of questions that has NOTHING to do with the two of you meeting for sex.

You may have lost this one already. No biggie, there's 3.5 billion women left to pick from.

Wow thanks for the great insight mate. I totally agree with you, do you have any advice on how to improve my text?
Furthermore I must state, that there were a lot of hugs/stroking her hair/stroking her legs with my hand, but not so much verbal teasing.
She did like a photo from my facebook today that was like 1 year old or so lol.

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My advice for texting is to make more statements than questions. And no more than 10 texts PER girl. Don't ASK if she wants to hang out, ASSUME she wants to. Let her know you "kinda" like her and INVITE her to "join" you for whatever reason.

If you want coffee send out texts to ALL of your potential girlfriends. So something like, "it's hotter than two fags eatin' a hot dog, I've got swamp nuts and so I'm going to go grab an iced coffee and a book. You should pack that sexy ass up and join me. Oh... and make sure to wear something that shows off your amazing rack; cute heals too. You got cute shoes, right?"

More statements LESS questions, shows I like her, and it's the first text.

You certainly know your shit. How about this:

Hi beauty,
How's life without a personal hypnotizer?
I'm on vacation this thursday, but I might be able to make some spare time wednesday to lay out your Taroth cards.
Oh and by the way don't wear those hotpants again or I might not be able to resist my inner Romeo...
X

We were chatting about how we both acted as a child, and that I once played a role of Romeo etc.

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