Hello, a few weeks ago, I met a very cute girl. She has probably 21 or 22 years old and I am attracted to her but the problem is that I'm 41.

What do you think? Should I ask her out or it's just my limiting believes?

and your name is Spy4u?? I think you know damn well what you want


Pleaaaasssseee ask her out. Do you know how easy it is for 40 + yrs to get 18 - 27 yr olds??? Im 21 and ive seen guys older than you struck gold with every move of their jaw!

The girls see experience - in bed and in dealing/organizing their emotions- money, and of course - the classic daddy issue girls!

I cannot WAIT until I get to get all the trouble daddy girls for the one, simple fact - they are soooooo eassyyyyy!

GO get them you pimp daddyy spy youuu

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That made me laugh hahaha xD

but yeah sure go for it, why not =]

When you were 21 yourself think of all the MILF's you would have loved to FC. maybe it's the same for women?

Go for it dude. You can be the next hue hefner.

Absolutely go for it.

It'll probably open your eyes a bit.. I'm 36 and am currently dating girls between 32 and 23 and sure - the younger ones have no issues with my age although your gap is of course wider.

They'll make fun of the age gap but that doesn't mean it's a problem, just don't go all weird when they do - make fun of it or jokingly claim you'll never work out together. I like making wrinkly faces as in 'ok I better go now' if they say they're below 22-23 or so, often they will start qualifying themselves when they see it.

I did bed an 18 year old a few months ago who said I was the same age as her dad. She still was all good to go between the sheets afterwards... but that did feel slightly pervy to hear haha. Didn't call her again though but that doesn't mean you can't find mature girls who are young so whatever - go for it!

go for it dude! Younger girls around my age (21-25) love older guys. Its the other way around with guys though. We typically like younger women. I myself like older women.

By all means go for it.

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Thanks guys for your help. I will have a try with this girl to see if something can happen.

the only reason why i would say not to do it is because i am 22 and i want all the 18-22 year old girls for myself.

haha

but seriously go for it man. what have you got to lose?

if i was in you shoes i would be thinking "awwww yeahhhhh"


peace,

Ben

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Age is something in your mind.

Forget about it and see what happens.

Variety is the spice of life:)

Good point...I mess with hot MILF's a lot, and chicks more than 8 years older me. So age is really nothing but a number man.

The only reason i would say NO is because my father is 42 and it would be awkward if i seen him with a chick my age.

HAHA


Again, do your thing man! Power to you.

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Whether the HB is 20 years older or younger is makes no sense to even think about it.

It's obvious to both of you that a disparity exists and if she has no issue then just do your stuff and be a man!

I am not talking about relationships here or marriage etc, just a pick up, lay and adios.

I'm 42. My new girlfriend just turned 20 a few months ago. I also have a few fubus in that age range. So what's the problem?

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They are all just mammals with identical desire and responses.

Turn them on at any age and then hit it!

limiting belief, but why are you attracted to a girl that young, you have nothing in common... you may have to change the subject about your age or a little white lie, try not to bring up the subject...I am in my mid 30s i do not date under 24 that is my personal rule... If you hook up just do her, do not get serious..

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