Hi, all

I went out partying for the last two weeks and I would like to talk about what happened.

Week 1

The first week I went out on the night with a friend but not exactly a wing. The moment I got into the club I approached a girl by dancing towards her. As I went close enough taking small steps she got the picture, had a slight smirk and slowly moved away as did her friend. In this manner I tried another 4-5 times approaching women in 2,3,4,5 sets but same results.

The weirdest thing was they were quite happy to have me approach them but didn’t want to dance. On a few occasions I also put my hand out asking if they would like to dance but to no avail. There was a 3 set which I approached quite close to, then the other girl whispers in my ear "she a lezbian" to which I reply how bout u?? "im her girlfriend" she was waiting for me to say something and stopped dancing at the time of the exchange. Was this a shit test? I don’t know? the best part of the night was the last 5 minutes when I approached a 3 set, asked one of them if she'd like to dance no joy there but her mate whizzed me round and started dancing with me. As I was enjoying the bumping n grinding, her other mate pulled me back from the waist to start dancing with me! what a kick! that never happened to me before!

week 2

by this week I had read the entire book the game, watched the season 1 of the PUA and checked out loads of you tube vids. I was on a high to go.

We got in to the club went straight upstairs to the roof which was a smoking area. A HB8-10 with another HB5 approaching us (for some reason) as the other guys intervened to grab attention they brushed them off and came to us. Don’t know why because the other guys looked way more attractive then us. As she was approaching I turned round knowing she was heading our way.

She asked, "do u have a fag??, we’ll pay for it!" I said it would cost you a tenner my friend gave her a cigeratte we started chatting so where u frm?? Im from Leeds shed said. She was quite open and talkative which made it easy for me. I asked so u into fashion, "yeah luv fashion" she replies. I say u sure about that?? They start giggling and I was like these negs work!! with a smile on my face. Her friend then seeks my approval what do u think of me?, what do u think of me?? with her 2 hands in front of her seeking my approval. Everything was going well until this f-*^ %^&shole put his arm round me saying how u doing? it been a while? he looked a little drunk but sober enough. Whispers vulgar things about the girls in my ear. I weren’t sure how to handle the situation so tried to use it to my advantage by demonstrating higher value as to say I know people. He then butted in to talk to the girls. I thought I would leave as it might show some dhv. I was more then confident the guy would be knocked back which he was as he was showing complete unworthiness. Then I felt hold on. Was that a demo of dhv or dlv? as it could appear I backed down against another guy?? So unsure there.

As the night was young I got to the dance floor made my moves as usual approaching girls from behind holding the waist only to be shrugged off. One girl was really seeking attention so thought I would approach her later. Then there was a 2 set eyeing me while I was dancing with my mate. Then giggling then eyeing me again. These were obvious ioi;s. I gave some eye, approached, would u like to dance, "no thank you" she said, I dint say you could I said would u like to? “No thank you” where u from? “London” “whats ur name” tasha, what you do? “I’m a student”. I just ran out of things to say. There were other girls waving there hair another ioi. I approached to be stopped by her mate. Then another girl bumping in to be several times but this could have been bcos it was very busy, she kicks a bottle by me with her back facing towards me. Took this as an ioi. I carefully touch her waist. She quickly turns round, stops dancing as does her mates. Smiles which to me was an obvious iod. The one girl who couldn't keep her eyes off me an hour ago, I just went up to her and gave her my no on a piece of paper. she stared at it confused as to what it was, then takes it. I just don’t know what I’m doing wrong?? There was another 3 set which I approached, can I ask you a question?? they look at each other and leave. So dint really get no joy there either

Now for the questions:

why would a girl show strong ioi's , obvious ones, then on the approach show iod's
this happened several times with different sets.

How on earth do you even lock targets in a very loud environment?

how on earth do you shoot down a pr^8 whos ruining your set?

why would a girl say shes taken and then go bobbing up and down and stand by you later on in the night? seeking attention?

If you are in the Birmingham area and you’re a PUA and you have experience, please im/email me as I really want to learn and don't know what I am doing wrong. May be we can meet and go gaming. Could really do with the aid of a good wing.

Thank you for reading my post.

I think you really need to work on your conversation. Bar talk is boring!

Look in to different conversational tips to hook them and build rapport.

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how would I generate an opener in a loud environment?? is there any gestures i can do?? would the girl not be put off by talking to her when she can barely listen to what i am saying??

attractionno1,

First of all, good job on indicating IOI's.

"She asked, "do u have a fag??, we’ll pay for it!" I said it would cost you a tenner my friend gave her a cigeratte we started chatting so where u frm?? Im from Leeds shed said. She was quite open and talkative which made it easy for me. I asked so u into fashion, "yeah luv fashion" she replies. I say u sure about that??"

That's a good way to neg women. Good for you.. Second, do not hesitate to approach sets and don't waste time on being attentive to sets. Use the three second rule when you see a target and don't hesitate and look back. Once you see a target and the moment she sees you back, approach IMMEDIATELY and never lose focus on her eyes when you walk up to her, *like a lion about to hunt down its prey ;P*. Open up with random openers, what ever comes up in your mind (as long as its not cheesy and lame). You could open up with suggestion like what you stated - fashions. Yes, its good that your confident, but don't be over. It'll spoil it, trust me!! Be smooth as you can when u talk up to women, especially your openers. Find a joke and make them laugh, DHV basically..

Third, NEVER approach women from the back, even when your dancing.. approach from the side and introduce yourself and open. Don't go barbarian on them!!! Lol.. Make sure you work on your body language too. Don't position your body towards women your talking to or opening to, position your body at the side and only your head facing towards her, just about the side shoulder. It'll demonstrate that you'd walk out anytime during the conversation and women will give the "seeking of your approval" to stay.

Bear in mind, you could have all the pretty girls in a club or elsewhere, loud environment nor calm environment. It's just entirely up to you to figure out on how to execute the targets and making the calls.. Im not from Birmingham, but from where I come from, GAME is very limited here (due to the laws and procedures of my f'in country) but I still close, seal and deliver!!!

All the best in your next game, and please do update on your progress.. Cheers!

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hey brown eyed,

thanx for ur post,

ill definitely put an update. definitely bear in mind what u said about the approach.

thanx again!