I have come here to seek advice, i think im falling in love with this girl thats been dating a guy for a long time, long term long distance. but they broke up recently and she told me they day they broke up, which was like 3 days ago... and i have taken her on a few "dates" while they were going out, but nothing happened really, i mean she had fun and all but no kiss close or anything. So I took her out tonight to this cool bar, and she had a great time again and all, but still didnt kiss close...i gotta be with this girl, what would you guys do...some advice would be much appreciated


thank you

Why there was no kiss close? Did you try to close it and she rejected it or you did not even try? From what you wrote, it seems that you waited to much and fell into "lets just be friends zone" but I need more input to figure out your exact situation.

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well since she got out of a big relationship and all, i didnt wanna try to push it

Do you think she likes you' likes you though, you oviously click cus she wants to spend time with you, her ringing on the day they broke up might be a good sign but i may also be a sign that she see's you only as a friend, what IOI's have you been getting from her?

ok ill give a little more background, on the "dates" i took her before i took her to these cool places like a chocolate bar and things like that, anyway they were all kinda crazy and she loved it. so i one late night i get online to check my email and i see her on and say hi. after a little small talk she tells me she broke up with her bf. so i tell her not to feel sad and whatever, and i'll take her to another crazy place to cheer her up. she said somethin like "u can take me out anytime regardless of my mood"...so i thought hmm...IOI
anyway that lead to me taking her out last night.

other IOIs, she laughs at any stupid thing i say, and she gave some IOIs thru eyecontact etc. And I did her cube, ok i should say that i do the cube on a lot of girls, and so far 99% have been outstanding results...but i managed to fuck her cube up a little haha, but she thoght it was kinda funny...i thought...shit!!

In my opinion, you have to up the kino, a lot, and kiss close. Otherwise, I think you're going to end up in the friends zone, if you aren't already there.

there is a problem...i wont see her for about a month. is there some long distance thing i can pull off?

Surely someone is goingto mention it, but basically is keep in touch but don´t look like needy. Say some his in ICQ/AIM/MSN or so on but don´t beg for attention. Also pray, cause when sheis far and on the wild all can happen :p

You have 2 options buddy.


1) Either you kiss her

2) Don't and let some other guy get her and you can dream about what it's like kissing and touching her.


Women want guys that are direct. Not pussies that are too scared to make a move on her. As soon as you get that through your head, the better off you will be. I'm going to state this ONE time for you and this is the cold hard truth.

WOMEN WANT SEX MORE THAN YOU!

That's right bro, but unfortunately social conditioning has made us dopes believe otherwise. The only problem is women have to guard themselves so they will not appear to be sluts. You have to make them comfortable with having sex with you. Being romantic and waiting isn't going to make them comfortable, it's going to turn them off and put you in a "Let's just be friends zone".

Chances are you are already in that zone. Don't discuss her boyfriend with her either.