FIELD REPORT: Wedgetail
TARGET: Brunette 8

I read 'The Game' because I thought it would be entertaining. I thought it would be bullshit. After I read the 1st hundred pages a meeting I was supposed to have was running late. So I thought I'd test out the waters to see if some of the stuff worked. I am 24, relatively fit, but by no means Brad Pitt.

I want to be a PUA, but let me say to start with- I'm not into bullshit- even the 'it's not lying it's flirting.' It's not me. I'm a smart guy I think so I don't want to create illusions.

I went to a nice bar in town, smiling, and saw a beautiful petite brunette serving drinks. I loved her chin. I used the 3-second rule- went straight to her and just asked her how she was going and started making small-talk. Then a male bartender came along, and I disarmed the obstacle. I pretty much just started talking to him and building up some values trying to ignore the beautiful brunette. I was amazed to see her try to get back in the conversation. I had won the guy's respect. He walked away.

She said something that sounded like she had thought about it, so I prodded with a thought-provoker. I was trying to find a neg. When she thought about it she looked up to the left and blinked. That was my chance. I said with a smile, "When you think, you kinda look up to the left and blink. I like it." Not the traditional neg- but I think the purpose of the neg is to make them think about their body in some way. I was determined not to ask her name. I was looking for an IOI. She smiled. My appointment arrived so I left.

I came back the next day, but prepared to disarm the obstacle better- I read up on the stuff I spoke to the guy about so I could engage him in good conversation. It worked. I approached the petite brunette. I wanted to be a bit more cryptic. I said I couldn't stay as I was on the way to a meeting. And there were people at the bar she had to serve. So I said, "You mentioned something yesterday. When I walked out of here I thought of a poem that might really help you. How bout we go out to dinner and I can tell you about it?" I was shitting myself but trying to stay cool. She replied, "Up to Christmas I am working every night..."

I said, "Then how bout Breakfast?"

"Ok. I'll give you my number." After she told me her number, she said with a smile, "My name is K." IOI!! I was really shitting myself, and getting completely aroused. There were other people there, and she gave me her number right there and then in the middle of the afternoon.

But then that's when I got lost. I told myself not to call her that night so I didn't look desparate. I called the next morning at about 11 and it rang out, but it did hit her voicemail box, and I was happy that she'd actually given me the right number! My voice message was pretty bad- I was not quite as confident as I had been in the bar- I said "Hi this is Wedgetail, the guy you met at work yesterday, I'd like to take you to breakfast tomorrow. Give me a shout." She didn't call. Then my weakness struck and I sent her an SMS that night which was a bit more poetic. But again, no reply. That was yesterday.

I don't get it, so I am asking for advice- why would she give me her number in front of a heap of people, then not even respond to my call? I'm not going to message her again, but I want to learn- what did I do wrong?

Is there no way I can move forward with this girl from here?

WEDGETAIL.

I think 3 days is the most comon suggestion but she could be attractted to some other dude in that time if she gets approached a lot. Working behind a bar will get a HB a lot of approaches.

I recently sms'd at 2 days after number close. Went downhill fast!

i always call right the way.

basically u didnt get a reply because u asked a hired gun on a date

u should have kept it more casual
something like
you: "I always head to starbucks @___ @___ before my afternoon meeting. meet me there and buy me a ___ and ill show you a poem that i think would really help you out."

before doing this however, you needed to make sure you established enough comfort and rapport with her. Being that she is a hired gun - she gets asked out all the time. Do you really think u spent enough time speaking with her? Did u demonstrate that you are significantly more interesting than the other 10 guys that asked her out that week?

But, considering all uv read is a few pages of "the game", that was a good FR. Keep learning and ull be suprised at how easy it gets.

Cheers

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ACE

Thanks for that guys- there's a few different ideas there. I know Style says that dating is for tools, and that you should not invest in anything until you've been laid, but Aceospades, do you really think I should be telling her that she should buy me coffee? I know it's the confident thing and the power balance sitting, but isn't that rude? I'm in this game to play hard, but I'm not up for deceit or being someone I'm not.

I am going to try something different today- it was the poetry thing that got her curious in the first place. So I'll play confident and go give her the poem on nice paper- say if she wants to discuss it sometime, give me a shout. I'll put my number there, and if she contacts me then that's a great close. If not, there's lesson number 1.

if there's anything to report I'll let you know.

Wedgetail.

i don't think you should take the poem with you. It is too needy and desperate. Style mentions that sometimes you should be willing to loose the girl. if anything i would ignore her, and if she talks to you, neg her. Remember: you are the prize.

Don't. You've already tried to get in touch with her twice, and she hasn't responded. Give it a couple of days and go back to the bar and if you see her, pretend like nothing happened, and if she wants to bring it up, shrug it off and say that you were busy lately anyway. Then you can attempt to salvage something without coming across as desperate.

TRS is correct man

the way u described it - it sounded like this PU started off ok

but she flaked on u
so it's possible she was just being nice

so like TRS said - DO NOT TRY TO CONTACT HER
and DEFINATELY DO NOT BRING HER A POEM ON FANCY PAPER

that is waaaaaaaaaaaaaay try too hard

just become a regular at the bar
when u interact with her
make sure to establish kino
and look for signifiant ioi's b4 trying to close again

remember a hired gun is PAID to be nice and flirt with people
thats how they make their tips!

cheers

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In addition to PU, I also offer my experience with psychological disorders (OCD, Depression, etc.) to the communitiy. Feel free to ask for help/advice via PM.
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Love many>Trust few>Do wrong to none
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ACE