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I have never been married and prefer open relationships. Many AFC guys would argue that this is not the best way to go about life, but having fuck buddy/friends with benefits relationships work wonders for me. This takes a lot of the SHOCK out of finding out one of your girls has been sleeping around.
If any of you have read Sperm Wars by Robin Baker and/or experienced infidelity, you know that just about any woman is capable of fucking multiple dicks. They love semen/sperm from their provider guy, usually the guy helping her with finances and being a supportive base for the protection/rearing of her children.
Then there is the sperm donor. This is the man she "cheats" on the beta/provider male with. Girls love a nice cream pie from these guys too. Surprisingly, many children are born to infidelity. I forgot the statistic off the top of my head, but it is quite larger than most people think.
You have to ask yourself, what is cheating? Is it being dishonest? It could be her kissing another dude, kissing another girl (oooh la la), sucking some dude off, going down on a chick without your permission (are you seriously going to stop her from oral sex with a chick?), having another guy flirting with her and she flirts back (that b!tch), or any number of sexual positions she can muster with another dude.
What is going to stop a girl from promiscuous? A diamond ring, wedding vows, paying her rent, you spending extra hours in the gym? Forgive me for sounding cynical, but last I checked the divorce rate was about 50% of all marriages. I can guarantee somebody was sleeping around to get those shocking results. As long as your girl has tits and a vagina, somebody else is going to want to fuck her. The sad truth is, she may not always want YOUR dick inside her. Maybe she wants Rico Suave one of these nights instead...
I use to be like this until I met my current gf, I had no plan on settling down, I had fun going out and picking women up, I had a few really good fb's, one of which I would hang out with like a gf but I made it clear we were not a "couple" and that I was only interested in sleeping together, and hanging out from time to time, then I met my gf (in a bar), I thought she was good looking but there was something sexy about her eyes, very exotic looking, started talking to her and couldn't believe how cool she was, she didn't put out for a while (we didn't sleep together for a month) which intrigued me! I could have closed her after a 2 or 3 weeks but I was actually just enjoying her company and really grew strong feelings for her! I dragged my feet for another month until I realized that I had been "seeing" this girl for 2 months, had no desire to sleep with anyone eles, was head over heals for her, and could not stand the thought of her being with another guy which is something that I had never cared about with any other women in the past! there are definitely perks to having a gf and perks to not having one, I guess it just depends on what you want out of life? I do agree with you in that having a gf can really be a pain in the ass sometimes!
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